Well I had my baby shower on Saturday and the best gift I received was nappy bin. I never had one with the girls, but I just LOVE this gift. Would never have bought it myself. I would have loved a photo shoot voucher as well. I'm still looking for a photographer to do our newborn shoot.
I then received a lot of summer short sleeved clothes which I know I won't be able to use as baby is due in March so winter will be upon us.
I think something like a bola (if she's the type of woman who will wear it, or a special baby toy (not a soft toy), a nappy bin, a photo shoot voucher, a spa voucher, a really special outfit from Naartjie etc. will make great gifts and she will actually remember who the gift is from.
I do appreciate clothing / bath products etc. but to be honest, who remembes who gave what once you get home? And you are always left with so much clothing that your baby never wears / are not season appropriate etc. I think I still got baby powder left from when Kayla was a baby 7 years ago.