my girl 3 hates nanny and ran next door

mrsz2 you are just like me , my 15 month daugher is sucking her thumb so i always call tease her by calling her Mazinyo( screw teeth) on monday my 15 month old lost the key and she was watching muvhango ( a tv programme) then i ask her if she could help me search for that key , i was busy searching under the coach and everywhere , she got angry and went outside without helping me and she keeps on saying to my 15 month old . mazinyo mazinyo where is the key . she said to my daugher ( wena mazinyo wa tena le meno( you with teeth you make me sick)

i was so pissed off , the way she was calling that name .

Change progress , you know township moes (khanyi is absolutely correct they stand in the line for their face to be washed with one face cloth , where they eat pap and soya mince for the whole month.

Reluctant Mom . is true that is not all about age , some young people love kids and some older people hates kids.

bonga.zuma } the fact that my kids ran next door and said i want to stay with you makes me to call my mother immediately.


reluctant mom} i am too soft and i have tried to change and be hard but nope is not working . i bealive that all my nannies measure me first and study the kind of person i am and then they relax. most of the time when they start they are hard worker , tidy up and very active , but then two weeks or a week they know my kindness , then they start to lie on the coach with their feet watch tv , and change the tv station while i am watching .

its me and its my hard , i spoke to my supervisor yesterday she is in her 50s and she told i am too kind and soft and people take advantage and think i am stupid .

this morning she brought me a list of how to change my attitude towards people

1.assist or help but with limits as others can take me you for a ride( this is me i can give you my last cents or my kids's last food)
2. nannies are nannies limit my giving and limit the friendship with them as they might weigh you and use my weakness to disrepect me.
3. choose who to share my private life with now nannies.
4. be kind and not stupid .

she says i am too much and that is why people take advantage on me. my supervisor is a christian and said even at church she never saw someone who is so kind like me.

thats is me , my mother told me to stop being so extra kind , cause when my kids grew up they will tremble on my head.

I am glad you got rid of the bad nanny.
We have responsibility to protect and love our children . Its strange that a child can show when their mistreated by nanny, these little angels never lie too, so its best to observe your child and listen to them. You did well Kimber

My nanny was with me for a month only and she managed to make me feel like I am not welcome to my home, my son of almost 11months has marks under his arms...the woman was pinching my child...for what still beats me, when i asked her she says" she was just playing with him and did not realise that it was so bad"
I thought to myself nobody must do this in my home to my kids and fired her...gave her money to natal and that was it...he is back in creche, he hates it but will get over it, i am done with helpers...nannies etc etc etc.

Shew Kimber that is a bit of a horror story. How did you find this woman again?

I don't think the issue is age - it is the person.

No matter the age of the just-kicked-out-the-door nanny, even in 20 years she is not going to change character. If she feels it is okay to behave like that now, odds are she is not going to be changing no matter what her age is.

I do think there are wonderful nannies out there who enrich our lives and who really make a loving home for our kids, unfortunately your chick just was not one of them.

haibo creche for R170 per month? but good thing you fired the nanny.

Maybe ask your mom to look for nanny in her area and you will pay her, Nannies respect older people and your mother will not be afraid to fire her if she is not working well.

yah, she doesn't deserve being with your LOs. you can't have them being frightned to be in their house, fire the nanny

Gooooood!!! She derseves it!!!!!!!!

Good thing , they are in a good environment and will both be looked after gantle by some1 u trust.

How about getting some1 in their 40's? It will be hard though, I agree with Nels_n. Nanny ya Thoriso is 42 from Pietersburg.

R170 e less, but the thought ya gore they are also being washed ka one face cloth while standing in a line, can make you think otherwise....They catch up on flu o kile wa bona. But sometime we don't have a choice but to take them der.