I am so sorry to hear about the difficulties you have had so far TTC. You are more than welcome to join our thread where we chat about our own journeys and offer support to all who are in the same boat.
Hey everyone I am new to the moomie group. I accidentally stumbeled across the forum while looking and reading up on some ferility questions I have. I hope you dont mind if I tell you a little about myself as I haven't realy spoken to anyone about me and DH fertility. I am 31 and DH is turning 41. We have been ttc for the last 5 and a bit years, we knew that it would be more difficult for us as we both are over weight. After 4 years of trying we decided to go see a gynea witch confirmed that the problem was with DH as they found no problem with me. We then went to a FS at Vincent Palotti who told us that DH as very little to no chance of having children with out help, but the problem might also be weight related and we should try and loose weight for a year before we come back and do another sperm analysis. We did so and DH managed to loose 40kg and I lost almost 50 kg in just under a year. Needles to say im still overweight. We repeated the test and got the same results. We will only be able to concieve by sperm donation or icsi. I dont realy want to consider sperm donation as I feel its not fair towards DH and the icsi im not sure if they will do with my weight and if it would even work.
Phew that felt good getting all of that of my chest. I am hoping to read about icsi as much as I can so that if and when they can or will help us I will be well informed.
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