Bonding with your second child

Hi there Jessica

Congratulations on your second pregnancy.

It is perfectly normal to feel this way. When I had my 1st child, I wondered if I would ever be able to love another child as much as her, even though I wanted a 2nd one.

I some times doubted in having one more but the feeling to have another one was always in my mind.

I promise you, a mommy can love ALL her children. My son is 13 months now and I love him so so much. I can't imagine my life without them.

There is a lot of room in your heart to love them both. I completely understand your worries.

The reason for not being "able" to bond with this baby through your pregnancy is because there is already another child that needs attention. You can't really focus so much on this pregnancy as your first.

Don't stress. Everything will be ok!

Please come update once the little one is born

Hi moms, I need help
I'm 7 months pregnant today and i feel like I haven't created a bond with my little girl. I don't feel the same way as I did for my 1st child and I'm starting to feel horrible about it. What if I can't bond with her when she arrives??? The worst part is I can't really share my feelings with anyone because I'm afraid that someone will criticize me and tell me I'm unappreciative of this special little girl.

can any mommies help me????