I give James (10.5m) almost anything.
For breakfast he had pancakes (Anabel Karmel Recipe), toast with strawberry jam,a plum cut into wedges and a chopped banana (and a spoon fed yoghurt). Other options are usually scrambled egg (he feeds himself), otees, kellogs, strawberry chunks, mango wedges, watermelon wedges etc.
For lunch he had tuna spag (spoon fed) and I have him a nectarine cut in half, pip removed. Usually he has leftovers but other options are steam broc, cauliflower, beans, carrots, baby tomatoes, cucumber etc. For carbs I do pasta, wedges, roast potatoes. Spoon feed rice, cous cous, spag etc.
Protein is fish fingers, chicken nuggets, cheese wedges, slices of meat 5cm long or so grated cheese, left over burgers, viennas, pork sausages all good for little fingers. Keep trying the fish fingers. My paed said try something 13 times (!)
I've stop pureeing Amy of James food. Has taken a while nut makes life soooo much easier. I was way stressed about the choking until I caught him choking on a leaf. A leaf if all things! I find now if he does gag on stuff he is really efficient at yacking it back up. Take a cpr course, it def helps!
Finger foods are your friend. Imagine sitting at a restaurant with other moms, their food growing cold and ice melting as they spoon feed their babies. Your child however is chewing on a steamed tendersten brocolli floret while you eat sushi and quaff chilled white wine. Has a certain ring to it doesn't it...?