@ memo, James is also on the skinny side now, and I was worried so took him to the doc who ran some bloods just to check.... everything was normal. I was recently looking at my road to health card from when I was a baby and I noticed that I also plateaued out after a year and was still weighing the same as James is now (9.2kg) but on my chart I was still sitting on the middle line.
I remember posting about this a while back about how charts seem to different, so I went and looked up the breastfed baby charts on the WHO website, and they ALL show plateauing weightgain after a year (with the biggest gains in the first 4 months). They also show significantly lower normal weights than the ones on the chart for James. Now I know the charts are a guide, but if you consider that medics use them as a guide and a baby is all of a sudden sitting on the 5th percentile (which james is on the netcare chart), then they would also be concerned). On the WHO chart, James is still sitting about 50% (infact average weight for a 2 year old on the netcare chart is listed as 12.8kg, but according to WHO its 10kg! Honeslty as long as Jude is developmentally on track, happy and healthy I wouldnt worry too much about weight gain.
As for food, Fatty meat is bad for you anyway:) Rather use full cream alternatives of dairy (full cream yoghurt - if you dont like woolies, pick and pay has a good kids yoghurt that is full cream), full cream milk in his cereal, food (eg white sauce in mac and cheeze) cheeze is very fattening (I use the lancewood full cream smooth cottage cheeze as an alternative to butter (I use butter not marge) on sandwiches. Mash potato with butter (YUM), avocado, hummus, sardines all contain good fats and are helpful in trying to gain weight. I do a lot of soups - and lentils are super to add to these:)
Something to note, fat cells in the human body only devide and proliferate up until the age of 5 (there about). After this age they only expand or shrink. The saying fat children make fat adults as a result does have some truth as a fat child will have developed more fat cells than a thin child. Result more cells to expand and harder to loose weight:) (not impossible), so be happy your kid is on the leaner side:)