Hi there!
Welcome to moomie and congratulations on your pregnancy!! You are right, a natural birth is very possible after a c-section and your gyni sounds like someone who just wants to do c-sections as cord around neck is usually not an indication for a c-section.
If I where you, I would get a new care provider asap!! Here is a link to Genesis clinic in Saxonworld Jhb, on their website you will find a list of private midwifes who practises at Genesis and who would be able to help you with doing a VBAC.
www.genesisclinic.co.za/
Please also join our other thread about VBAC support where we chat about options and support ladies who wants to attempt a VBAC.
www.moomie.co.za/index.php?option=com_ku...&id=225332&Itemid=82
Good luck with your journey!!