file My baby born sleeping 10/02/11

7 years 3 months ago #276011 by Moomie Admin
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7 years 3 months ago #275995 by Salemein

Miss Kay wrote: Stillbirth is normally a taboo to talk about it and losing my child in Feb,gave me a wake up call.I have since learned that stillbirth can be prevented in so many ways.I was 31 weeks 6days when I lost my precious baby girl,I had dreams and plans for this child and my dreams were shattered when the dr didn't find a heartbeat.It was a nightmare,I didn't want to wake up from but now after 4 months I have accepted that she is out of my sight yet she will forever live in my heart,she will always be my child even if people might as well not talk about her but I remember and diarising everything about my precious Nkazi.

My pregnancy was normal with no complications,one wednesday I had a gaestro and went to see a dr the following day.Whilst on the U\S I noticed that my baby was weighing 2 weeks behind and the dr said I shouldn't worry as I was healthy and the baby's heart was strong and sent me home to come back after two weeks.I went back then I found that my baby was no more.I was induced into labour and labour lasted only 6 hours and my angel was born,perfect in every way yet without life.

I wanted to blame the dr for not reffering me to the gynae as he is a GP and and; and; but honestly I blame no one cause that won't bring back my baby.Everyday I miss her,everyday I wish it was not her,everyday I wish I can just have her back.I am a mother who is just yearning for her dead child.

Nkazimulo my angel mommy misses you.

Hi

I lost my baby boy 11/11/16 at 38 weeks also after a perfectly healthy pregnancy. It was the worst day of my life. Its still fresh for me (only just over 3 months). I know that the pain wil be with me forever and I just want to say that I am sorry for your loss. I also hate that the subject is tabo. My Kian lived and the world can not just forget our angels. :( lots of love

Me: 25
Hubby: 28

March 2016: BFP
November 2016: Baby Boy born sleeping
11/11/2016
Normal Birth (38 weeks)
2.765kg 48cm

TTC
05/05/17 - Doctor found cysts, on Nordette for 2 cycles
04/07/17 - cysts has cleared, starting with clomid the 12th on CD5-CD9
07/08/17 - AF showed up. Taking a break
11/10/17 - Positive ovulation test
22/10/17 - Natural BFP at 11 DPO

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12 years 11 months ago #193991 by crazylove
sorry to hear of your loss ,thinking of you .......

my sister had a stillborn 14 years ago but still after all this time she will mention her girl's name. each one heals differently and in their own time and space.

yes it is heartbreaking to lose a child but do take the support that is offered.

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12 years 11 months ago #193958 by Babyshoes
Oh hunni! This was really sad to read and really heartbreaking!

I am so so sorry for your loss!

xxx

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12 years 11 months ago #193955 by Kinderelomelo
So very sorry for your loss Miss Kay. Your post is heart wrenching but the love for you angel is very clear.

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12 years 11 months ago #193915 by WGRAY
Thinking of you Miss Kay...I am crying with you as I read your story. A friend of mine just gave birth to a 24 week baby and she died an hour later in her arms...it is no fun! I can just send you a hug!

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12 years 11 months ago #189393 by Miss Kay
To be honest some days are better than the others,some days the pain is manageable and my prayer is never hold on to pain but to her sweet memories.

Thank you ladies for the words of encouragement.

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First daughter born on 30/06/2008,my joy and pride.
2nd daughter went to heaven to be crowned with angelic wings on 10/02/11,my hope and my strength.vutshamo.blogspot.com/
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My 3rd born baby born 12/02/12
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