file My baby born sleeping 10/02/11

12 years 11 months ago #189368 by Yaz
Miss Kay, I believe that losing a child is one of the most terrible things that can happen to a woman. The pain will never go away, you just learn to live with it over time. Wishing you lots of strength to carry on! xxx

Cameron (*08.08.2009) is watching his little sister from above.

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12 years 11 months ago #189362 by change in progress
Miss Kay my condolences to you and I can't imagine what you must be going through.

Having lost a loved one myself I can tell you that with time the pain becomes manageable and you will carry on living. Give it time my love. again I'm so sorry.

married for 3 years with 7 yr old daughter and 2yr old son.

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12 years 11 months ago #189352 by Reluc.t.ant M.o.m
I saw these words this morning, per chance, and it reminded me of your post .....so forgive me for cutting and pasting it here, but I felt it conveyed a sentiment that I often feel and never know how to translate in to words ......

Mourning can go on for years and years.
It doesn't end after a year, that's a false fantasy.
It usually ends when people realize that they can live again,
that they can concentrate their energies on their lives as a whole,
and not on their hurt, and guilt and pain.
Elisabeth Kübler-Ross


What keeps me (partially) sane ...
reluctantmom.wordpress.com/

What makes me smile ...
celestebarlow.wordpress.com/

What no one says out loud ...
dirtylittlesecretsmotherskeep.wordpress.com/

Location: CY country
Off spring: 3 (ages range from 2 - 9 years old)

Struggling to juggle life, kids, work, my bottle of wine, without having a total humour failure.

I have a letter from my pdoc to say I am insane, so tread lightly with me, some days I can be a total bitch. I'm lying. Most days I am a total bitch.

I abhor smiley face icons. Just saying.

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12 years 11 months ago #189170 by Huggles
Replied by Huggles on topic Re: My baby born sleeping 10/02/11
I am so very sorry for your loss xx

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12 years 11 months ago #189142 by Kirst
Miss Kay I'm so sorry for your loss. Any of us who have been through pregnancy will totally understand your feeling that Nkazi will forever be your child. Her loss is no less painful than if she had died sometime after a full term birth. For most people a child only really exists after it is born, but for a mother her child exists and is loved and cherished from the moment we know we're pregnant.

Love, strength and peace to you in your mourning and on your healing journey.

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12 years 11 months ago #189140 by Nadia
I wish you strength Miss Kay.

Mom to a gorgeous boy (4yrs) and due with number 2 in January 2015

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12 years 11 months ago #189136 by Vamo
One day surely you will meet Nkazi and she will tell you that she never meant to cause you any sorrow and pain.

I can never imagine what you must be going through but I can only pray that you find peace and comfort from God.

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