Hi,
We went for our first scan on Thursday and we were told there was no heart beat to our little 8 week old fetus, we went for a second scan to confirm the first scans foundings.
Our dr said I would have to go for a D&C but our medical aid wont cover the hospital bill.
I honnestly dont want to go for a surgical procedure to have the fetus removed, I feel that if it happens naturally I will be able to cope better, as I have this feeling stuck in my mind of, "what if the dr and equipment was wrong? What is the fetus is smaller /younger than what the dr said and that's why they could not find the heart beat?" Then if I go ahead with the d&c and they were wrong I would then be killing my baby that could have had a chance?
I am really struggling with this and dont know what to do.
I have read a lot of articles on natural miscarriages , but these woman have already started with their body aborting the fetus. My body has not.... I dont want to abort my baby clinically, I just cannot come to terms with it.
Any help will be appreciated....