file What to expect from D&E

11 years 4 months ago #261409 by StellaK
Replied by StellaK on topic What to expect from D&E
big hug to you :heart: and so sorry that you have to go through this.

do not have any advise on D&C though. i did not go for 1. had my MC at home and let everything pass naturally.

hope all goes well and hope you will find peace and healing

me 35, DH 39

TTC #1 since Oct 2012
March 2013 BFP, May 2013 MC at 10 weeks (Blighted Ovum)
6 Aug 2013 BFP, Gerhard gebore 8 April 2014
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#2 BFP 3 Jan, Franswa gebore 8 Aug 2015
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#3 TTC from Apr 2018
MC Oct 2018
BFP 23 Nov 2018
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11 years 4 months ago #261390 by Kay_vdW
Hi fellow Moomies,

I had my first scan this past Tuesday, at just over ten weeks. The doctor told us the fetus had stopped growing at 6 weeks 5 days.

I'm having a D&E done in the morning. I'm really nervous as I've never had one. I haven't even had general anesthetic since having my tonsils out at age seven. I'm going to the hospital at 5:30 and my theater time is 8:30. I'm slightly terrified at what to expect in those three hours.
The doctor told me to take the three Cytotec's when I get up tomorrow morning, after which I might start having contractions and dilating. I had a really fast labour when I had my daughter, I'm so scared of dilating too fast and things not going to plan. Does anyone have any experience with this they could share? I asked a friend who has had one and she just said that apparently they fill you up with air so they can see inside and then you're really uncomfortable afterwards.
I also don't know what to expect when everything is over. What do I even take with me to the hospital?!

Anyone who can share a few stories and put my mind at ease, please feel free. I'm really scared.

Thanks,
Karin.

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