Angie I only had internal scans until about 12 weeks with my 2 previous gynaes. And possibly an internal exam at about 38 weeks as I was still planning to go natural, but I cannot remember 100% if I did have one. otherwise no poking around down there. he he
Happyface I personally prefer the baby being at home. My friends kids are always sick...for weeks on end from being at a creche. In winter to take them out to creche, would just not be ideal for me.
I got my nanny a week before I went back to work. I would not suggest that anybody cuts it that close. lol. A month before so you can keep an eye on her and get a feel for how she treats your child. My sister also stayed at my place the first few weeks after I went back to work to keep an eye on the nanny for me. Pleased to say she is an absolute gem...my first nanny and been with us for over 6 years now!
I sent both my kids to playschool only once they hit 3 for half day. My son I sent reluctantly. He was only supposed to go 2 days a week, but the child cries to go everyday so he is at playschool 5 days a week now