Hi Despiraat,
I am so sorry to hear about your ordeal! It is really shocking that a private hospital doesn't have any emergency gyneas on hand. However you are not the first one that I have heard of where doctors refuse to help in an emergency situation. (So much for that oath they take, hey??). My genea was also one of the doctors who are willing to help while in an emergency situation nobody wanted to touch this one women who was dying of an ectopic pregnancy. All the doctors thought that this women wasn't going to make it, so no one wanted to be the doctor treating her while she died. My doctor agreed to operate and she is alive because he was the only doctor willing to take the risk. All doctors certainly are not the same...
I can totally understand your shock. You arive at a private hospital thinking, Okay, I am in good care now...Then they tell you, sorry there is no doctor!! Crazy.
Hope you recover quickly and feel yourself again.