Bullied into having sex with partner

Oh my word. He clearly has no idea of how you must be feeling and sadly it won't improve once baby arrives either.

True our partners have needs, and we have to understand how important sex is to men. He is probably stressing that if he doesn't get it now, what will happen when baby arrives.

The fact is though that you have needs too and right now you need to rest and take it easy as a pregancy takes its toll on your body and your emotional self.

You really need to sit down and discuss this like adults.

He has two hands doesn't he?? Can he not pleasure himself for now?

Shaz your fiance seems to forget that you are a 'we' at the moment... as in you are carrying his child!! If you don't mind me asking, is this a fight you guys have had before? Do you fight often? Your line about not provoking him, I will admit, worries me a little for your sake?

I would fill a ruck sack with about 10kg's (or however much you've gained in the pregnancy thus far)worth of books/ tin food/whatever the hell you got. Then tell him to strap it on to his front & spend a full 24hr day with a huge, heavy stomach in the way...Then he can see how "sexy" he feels...

Shaz you need to sit down with your partner and explain the situation to him so that he understands that you are not intentionally depriving him of his 'needs'! Pregnancy takes a huge toll on your body, especially if you are still working as you mentioned!

I really hope you can sort this out before your LO arrives Shaz!

thankyou!! I agree its just made me feel so upset

I'd tell him to F$#% off! And if anyone ever pointed a fat finger in my face I would break it off!

Sorry Shaz but in my opinion his behaviour is absolutely unacceptable!

I am almost 35 weeks pregnant, I work all day and I am suffering badly from water retention my pelvice is extremely painful when I do anything including walking.

My Fiance` & I got into a huge fight because I wanted to go to bed and he wanted me to satisfy him, he started screaming at me telling me how selfish I am for not caring about his needs. I brought up the fact that I had worked all day and that I was tired and I had heartburn and I really wasnt feeling upto it, he sticks his big fat finger in my face and says " the problem with this scenario is its all about "I"" not "we" I have never been so angry in all my life that someone who knows how much I am suffering can be so calous.....I tried not to provoke him and broke down in tears.....

I am just lost for words I feel like my heart has been ripped out and I am so scared to see what happens when this baby is born, if he is fighting to absorb my last once of energy what is he going to do when the baby comes? I am already not sleeping at night, I am worn out with physical work I have to do at my job......I am in constant worry about financial issues and making sure everything is covered and then still the birth process.......

anyway his attitude is I am his fiance` and I can ask anyone and they would agree with him that he has needs.........
Please can I have peoples views regarding this so I can send it to him