Unplanned pregnancy

hi Zodwa

Pls don;t stress, same with me my preggies was not planned, it just happened, so if you are preggoes, it's how GOD planned it,

where DH like's it or NOT one of the Good day's he's going to be a father to the second child

Pls keep well huggies

Any news yet Zodwa?

I think most pregnancies are unplanned. As the ladies said, DH will definitely adjust(if you are preggers).

In the meantime, take a test(if you haven't already).

Any news Zodwa?

Both my kids were very unplanned!

With Jade, DH and I were still dating and not for very long! And wham bam thank you maam I was preggies. Major shock. I had been on the pill for like 13 years and nothing!!! And we used condoms (most) of the time. Anyway, we all adjusted and things worked out extremely well.

I still remember buying a preggie test more a joke as I had missed my period but had been travelling so thought that was it. Did it at a friends house before meeting DH for a Springbok Nude Girls concert. He didn't even suspect. Then we went to concert and I wasn't drinking or smoking and he was like what is up and I did both alot before! Anyway next morning told him I suspected, went to doc same day and he confirmed.

DH hadn't even met my parents yet!!!

Got married when Jade was 15 months not because we had to but because we wanted to. DH proposed when I was 8 months preggies - shame tried to make as romantic as possible as I was HUGE!

Troy also unplanned. I think DH was more shocked 2nd time around. Was a month after our wedding and Jade slept out one night and we actually had our bed to ourselves.... I am sure it was that night...

Anyway, def not having any more kids but all has worked out and he is a fantastic dad and my kids are awesome!

To answer your question,my DH was over the moon and I couldn't believe it.He even bout me a card "new beginnings" and he couldn't wait to tell the whole world and I was the frustrated one as my 1st baby had just turned 2 and I felt I couldn't cope and what will people say blah blah blah..............

In your case,I advise do not jump the gun before it shoots,I agree with the ladies take HPT and take it from there.It might turn out that even if you are,DH will jump for joy

Any news yet?

I agree, go along and have some blood drawn then you will know.

I think the worst is the scheming, and imagining all the worst possible outcomes.

What ever happens, people adjust - they just do, no matter what the news.

Sometimes the immediate reaction is not always what we hoped for, but pregnancies like all of life's surprises are never as "bad" as we often think they are.

Zodwa, you are worrying about things before they have happened. Go do a test, it should show + by now if you are preggies, then worry about how to tell DH if you are...

You are going to freak yourself out if you keep this up!! Good luck, and let us know if there is a bun in the oven.