You, your partner and baby will remember your birthing for the rest of your lives whereas your Caregiver will probably not remember you 3 - 6 months down the line. One of the most important decisions you make once pregnancy is confirmed is to choose your Caregiver. Gynaes generally will manage your birthing (main focus on what could go wrong) where a midwive will support your birthing and accept that this is a natural event) We have one of the highest caesearean rates in the world and one Johanneburg clinic in particular states that 80% of their births are c-sections. It is important to make your wishes clear very early on and if your Caregiver gives you glib answers or fobs you off then alarm bells should start ringing and you need to look elsewhere. Ask many questions (act like a consumer!). Once you have found the right person you have many months to educate yourself (go to natural childbirth classes) and build rapport with your Caregiver so that you can feel safe and secure on the big day!
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