HI @BeeHen, yep, 20w4d...really cant even imagine how fast time has gone by, I mean we are all past the halfway mark already! And since we have x-mas and all the holidays in between now and delivery the rest of this time will most likely go by as fast if not faster. Birds and butterflies sounds very cute, sure you can find some nice things to make her room pretty. Here is a site I came upon if you ladies want to look, they make custom baby linen, not cheap, but it seems like this is kind of the pricing (from looking at other places as well)
www.babylovelinen.co.za/ they are in KZN but come highly recommended as doing fine work and not being horrible to deal with.
This is probably strange, but I am looking forward to not working for those 4 months, I have been so busy to the point of being overwhelmed at work lately. I was bored at work for so long and now I am so busy. I am not complaining, but I really will love the break since I dont think we will take time off in Dec just to make sure I can take a month's worth of leave and then only 3 months mat. leave since I dont get a full salary.
Anyway, my little man is quite active this morning, I too feel like a beached whale and I cant believe how big I am already! I went to a wedding when I was 24 weeks with my first son and I was most definitely not this size then! I do also need to make more of an attempt to actually be active, especially if I am going to attempt a natural delivery again.