August-September 2010 Moms

Morning all

Girly and babyzee this is our week...wow finally it has arrived.

and who else this week??

I have so much to do also absolutely no energy, have to go by my lil princess's grocery list for the week that im in hospital, stocking up her aunties fridge with her fav things to eat.

She is staying with her aunty for the afternoons and her dad in the evenings, so im stocking up for two houses to make sure she has her fav gouda cheese and her bulgarian woolies yoghurts and so on...she has a strange taste in food! she loves tamotoes and olives so strange for a 2 year old!

I dont have my domestic tomorrow but desprately trying to get her to come in so she can iron and help me tomorrow. I really could do with the help!

I have ben taking the aterax, so ive been sleeping like a baby...no problems there just wish i woke up with more energy i could stay in bed all day!


DH and i not in the best place at the moment, he continues to make me question our future together he is very much on his own mission in life and his excuses for his strange behaviour really worry me, if you remember on pampers when i was around 4 months pregnant i found out he was crossing certain lines with his ex girlfriend, and trust has been an issue as he has shown little to change his ways.

I have been blamed for all of it as according to him i am rough around the edges and dont act like a loving woman....excuse me you lived with your mom until you were 35 and she had nobody else to look after and she may have enjoyed pampering your ungrateful ass, but i work on a two way systym and when you said jump i said how high and i massaged your back and cooked you 3 course meals and made your life as comfortable as i possibly could you were never returning anything, I GAVE UP! after 4 years of trying to compete with your mom i gave up and now that she has passed on you xpect me to just jump back into that, i have grown up alot since then, 6 years on i know what you all about...it does not matter what i do...i have tried everything! why dont you try something!

He has strung along with this relationship and only ever invested finantially in it, he has put no effort what so ever into it and at some point it is just to late to give it a chance, to much happend,,to much said and to many people involved.


He told me that he loves me with all his heart but i irritate him so much and drive him insane that he cant find me attractive anymore unless i change!


So basically he wants me to baby him like his mom did, and we will be ok but me not wanting to surrender to that spells that he and i hav no sex or intimate life and then i must take the blame.

I run my house like anyone else, i cook dinner pack lunches clean i have a domestic in the week but what he wants is when he phones me from work and tells me his lips are chapped that i giv a shit like his mom did and rush to the shop and buy him lip-ice and hand deliver it to him at work....this sounds crazy but thats what his mom and 3 sisters have done for him his whole life. And im so sorry, you are a big boy make a plan...hense i am the one with the problem an am rough around the edges. COME ON, we are just mabe to different and this may not be a match thats meant to last. We are from different worlds apparently!~


I am going to have my hands full when sienna comes on tuesday and i will throw myself into the unconditional love of my kids, as for him and i we should be civil but i am done with this crap...6 years on and the same crap the next 6 years will be the same and some point we will have to decide that we most probably dont belong together, but for now i have a newborn coming....and my life will be filled with a new kind of joy!

I thought I'd have a lovely long sleep last night as I was exhausted by 8pm, but then somehow got 2nd wind while watching tv and eventually got into bed at 11pm but read until 1am. Was up again at 4 with heartburn, and wrestless from about 8am eventually got out of bed just after 9

Even though baby room is finished and bags are packed I still feel like there's stuff I need to do but I just dont have the energy.

I want to finish my pregnancy scrap book, and laminate all my scans and put them in, and go through the antenatal class notes and sort out filing and and and.
I have this small feeling Kaylee may try make her appearance before Friday, but DH is asking her not to, otherwise he doesnt get as much time with us during the week.
Had some more gel like discharge, mostly clear though. Had it 2 weeks ago as well, so guess it doesnt mean much.
Anyone else have that?

It's cold in Cpt today. I'm gonna go sit in recliner in Kaylee's room and read my hypnobirthing book and relax a bit before DH wakes up.
Will have to wake him soon though, as I want us to finish a few things around the house today, as tomorrow he wants to go riding.

Thanks for all the pictures mommies!!!

Charnenay thanks so much for posting!
Your little girl is beautiful! So glad that the c/sec went well.
Did you bring your own clothes/ blankets for Emily for her hospital stay?
Did you land up in a private room or general ward?
Sorry for all the questions - but my date at Panorama is just over 4 days away so keen to hear about it from you!

Nikki_P Peyton is just so beautiful! I bet you're one happy, allbeit busy mom!

Mina Moo love the big fluff of hair

Babyzee and Mommy2J hope you guys are taking it easy and making the most of this weekend!

BabyK's mom how u doing? I got the books & cd from Kim, and going thru it again mostly for the breathing. But I must say I am a very logical person and visualisation is not natural for me and it's very difficult to switch off. But hopefully the time in advance of the c/s is giving me time to prepare for it all that I wont be a nervous wreck on the day. I hope you will get the natural birth you desire! Sounds like you're in good hands.

KerryA lol about the due date bets. When a friend was pregnant a couple years ago towards the end we were all placing bets, as she suddenly started carrying quite big. We were all convinced baby would come early, and in the end he arrived on due date. Just shows! But it's rather entertaining
AFM before booking c/sec date I was convinced baba would arrive in Sept. But looking at her placenta and amniotic fluid even if I can go natural, gynae wont let me go beyond 39w lol.

Hey ladies!!!!!

Congrats M2M! Can't wait to see pics of your little boy.

I can't believe I am finally a mommy!!! Seems so unreal. My little girl is perfect and sooooo sweet. For now, all she does is sleep and eat. I actually have to wake her for feeds!!!! She weighed 3.18 at birth, and had dropped to 2.7KG by the time we left the hospital, so have to make sure that she is fed every 3 hours so that she doesn't loose any more weight.

Here are some pics of the little princess.

First family pic

The c-sec was a walk in the park and trust me ladies - I am a real baby when it comes to pain, but I think the first few breastfeeds are more painful than anything to do with the c-sec. I was terrified of the spinal, but really having a drip put up is more painful than the spinal - it's just a quick prick!!!!! I felt very nauseous immediately after and that was the worst part for me. Coughing, sneezing or laughing is really painful, but other than that as long as I take my pain meds, I have no pain at all!

Will post a detailed birth story under the birth story section.

Good luck to everyone still waiting, can't wait until you all also have your babies safe in your arms. Thanks for sharing this amazing journey with me - I feel like I know you all!!!!

Congratulations to all the new mommies! I'm sure you are all loving your little ones, I know I am.

To all the mums to be-GOODLUCK with everything-it is the most amazing mind blowing experience giving birth to your child. Its going to change life as you it forever.

Will try to get around to posting my BS-its been so hectoc since Peyton's arrival, I started a few times,but couldn't finish

Attached is a pic of my angel 8 days old

Hi Mina moo,

Your baby is so cute may God bless her enjoy every second with her we are all so proud. Take time to rest also when you are ready post the birth story would like to read it.

Mommy2J shame man take it easy i hope you feel better soon, not long to so now just three more days and we are there, btw where are you giving birth i am going to CTMC.

Take it easy mommies and mommies to be...

Hi all...

Hope u all still going strong

Well, it's official, i'm a Mommy and a very busy one as I dont have the time to go online and post Jack I remember saying on here how board I was when I was just starting maternity leave...all I can advise u off ladies, enjoy the rest for now, ur definitely going to need it, trust me!
Will post my birth story soon, just wanted to share a pic of her with you all...

Born: Kinsgbury Hospital
Date: 30 July 2010
Time: 13:55
Via: C-section
Weight: 3.1kg's
Length: 47cm

We had her naming ceremony on Tues. "SANIYAH" our precious "lil p"

DH is lying next to her so I have a mini break quick, will be back soon

Well done to the mommies like myself & mommies to be, take it easy!

xxxx