Soweto Ladies

Hey sexy mama`z.

Usually , I always have something to say when it comes to men and relationships, but this tym, haai no man, I`m outa advice, maybe coz we too have also fallen victim to routine lives......it sucks big time, and the energy is just not there anymore, but ladies, we need to get each other motivated again, sure every relationship has its challenges , not to mention the "Typical African Male" phenomenon, but sometimes they just dont see things the way that we do....

I mean we`re all about the whole Janet Jackson marraige(Why did I get married movie) so whats keeping us from having that thang going on?

Blackie , ag man, you making me miss those times, honestly I couldnt wait to stop BF-ing but now I seriously miss bonding with my Diva. And that for what, coz I wanted to start shedding some kilos.

Elamsmom

Talk to hubby, and tell him exactly how you feel. I know our black men are just..(I don't know really). Put it the way it is, if u r getting bore, don't be scared to say it "Baby I am getting bored, everything we do has become a routine. This is OUR marriage, let spice it up" If he says you must 'go outside to play with your friends' then there is problem. Just don't try too hard, remember he has to meet you half way.

Hi ladies,

Hope everyone is well and them families too.

@Elamsmom i once felt like that too with my BD, he absolutely had no time he was forever busy and was taking a strain at work, and then the situation got out of control, i had to change my lifestyle first i started going out more (no cheating business ne) just with good friends and whilst doing that he noticed the difference so now at least once a month we go out just the 2 of us we paint the town red...and i feel that we as women have that power to see and make changes in the relationship (i stand to be corrected) but its not a smooth journey i tell you...but in general nje men loose their spark....

to be honest i once felt like getting the attention from other men talk about temptations

Blackie-I so love that picture its so cute

Patty-Enjoy the baby shower dear

Conceiving i once went to a certain gynae and he told me that i cant conceive because my tubes are blocked and will need to go for an operation....WTF so we decided to go for a second opinion went to our family Dr he said i must sue a hell out of that gynae, he said just go on and have sex as usual and the little thing called "baby" will be conceived forget about that stupid Gynae, 2months down the line was 6 weeks preggies...please teel your friend to have Faith

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Ladies,Elamsmom is the one going to the baby shower,there is no Patty here,or is my pc not showing me things??Elamsmom reconnect,a routine life is boring,work,cook,play with lo,eat,sleep*have sex once in a while *,GML is rite,plan date nites,it is hard if ur the only one putting an effort and the other party does not see what you see,or mayb chooses to ignore it Man giving you attention is not a bad thing,how you react to it,now that's anada story.

The karma sign i think,works like the "like"button on fb,if you like the comment or topic you click on it

Can someone explain to me what is tha Karma sign on the right top side of each user?

Oh dear!
Patty@ I will not answer your question but Elams question.
Am really tired. Going for a nap. Hopefully Amara will sleep too.