Soweto Ladies

Wildcat, get yourself some, coz once ur baba is here you will be getting little sleep, you will be groggy and guess what that will do to your sexdrive..... it goes to the dogs.

I have a colic baby, and she is really putting strain on me, dont even have time for the poor guy,my hair is in a ponytail everyday, but serves him right for denying me some nookie....(sorry but I had to go there)

Yo, another pregnancy so soon, that would mean being preg for almost 2 years at once...

Not your fault doll. He would have find out anyway, phela they talk with friends you know. I didn`t have to tell BD he knew and said that we can anly stop if the gynae say so He says to me that the nookie is good for baby, it will make her grow Ladies this Q is personal but i just had to ask: Is it safe for the baby when bd release himself inside you & leave the sperms Im just wondering?

I guess,i am just panicking bcoz my breasts havent gotten that big,still wearing the same bras,well i guess i have to be patient,so jade101 you have to wait for 3months to get some ? my bd was asking me the ada day for how long can we have some,and i said if posiible untill the due date that was my mistake,should have never told him that,now he wants it all the time,he says it's bcoz he cant have any for a few weeks after lo is born,what have i done

Ntoko,have you bought the big stuff yet??like pram,car seat etc,i laybyed this cute pram,the one i wanted,with lo facing me,it doesnt come with a car seat,but it's fine will that later on,and it was so affordable,it is from Chellino,R1200,will pick it up when i go on ml,sshhhhh it is a secret

3rdtimeMoomie, that is the reason why they advice on roughly 3 months, i can only imagine your shock
I also have a stitch, Hubby didn't want to do the deed until gynae adviced it was okay but to use the rubber

Ntoko, good for you, start now. I also need to pull up my socks & start shopping

Shame 3rdtimemoomie, I feel you, you aint gon get none for a while..

Wildcat2, If your breasts start leaking waterish fluid at about 32 weeks or later maybe,then its a good sign that you will have some supply. Mine were leaking when I pressed them during pregnancy, and later leaked by themselves the closer I got to my due date.

The nurses told me that the actual milk only comes in after 3 days , so the feeds you give LO from birth is just the colostrum, which is vital for newborns because its got antibodies to sort of kick start their immune systems, so try to BF from the get-go..

jade101 - Thanks for the nipple cream tip.

Bd blankly denied going to the antenatal classes Phela he is Zulu so you know how they are mos, all stubborn. He`ll do everything but not antenatal classes. Im fine with doing it alone

wildcat2 - Thats my fear. What if i cant breastfeed? What if there`s no milk? But i pray that i can be able to.

3rdtimeMoomie - 6wks But its understandable with the ceasar.

As i enter the 3rd trimester i think i will start preparing the bags. Will let bd buy lg`s things and i will buy things for my bag. Just to be ready, just incase shit happens

Hello Moomies,

Jade101- well maybe he is traditional! Well when my ex and I had our 1st son- we did the deed after the staples were removed..thinking it was 6wks after the C-Section, well i fell pregnant! lmao- not funny at the time cos I was breastfeeding and didnt know I was pregnant! so I had to opt for a TOP.

At present I am 22wks preggies and have a stitch in to keep the baba inside and my BD just wont go there! I havent been shagged in a while and my dreams are so real....
It doesnt help much with the hormones either..lmoa