file How can I get my son to sleep through the night

12 years 6 months ago #247393 by Huggles
Also get his ears checked. My son used to wake up at about 2am each morning and take an hour or two to get back to sleep. Turned out he had severe glue ear and needed grommets. As soon as the grommets were in her started settling much quicker and more easily (still woke, but he literally drank his milk, rolled over and went back to sleep).

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12 years 6 months ago #247392 by haffie
The staying awake might be over tiredness. Check the age appropriate awake times and try follow those. That said, my little guy seems to go through these night "staying awake at horrendous hours" each time he drops a nap. The 3-2 at 10 months was AWEFUL! But it passes!! Buuut I am super chaft that he only wakes 3 times a night now- and he is almost 13 months... But you learn to cope, even when back at work! I promise:-)

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12 years 6 months ago #247388 by leageorge
Hi Momtoc......

Thanks for the reply. I do breastfeed and have started co-sleeping as well because, as you've said, its much easier :-) I also have not started any solids as yet. I'm waiting until he is a full 6 months before I do. Our pead really stressed not starting too early on our last visit. My lo has started teething so that's probably whats upsetting him.

The problem is that sometimes he gets up at 2 or 3 in the morning
and then stays up for about an hour or 2.

Oh, I too do not believe in the cry it out method. I just can't leave him crying all alone.

Anyway, we'll just take it 1 day at a time and hopefully things will settle down eventually.

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12 years 6 months ago #247386 by blessedmom
Babies go through many phases as they grow, their sleep patterns change constantly. There are many reasons a baby may wake at night. Do you breastfeed him, if so, remember the breast is a mothering tool (comfort, security, food, drink etc) Babies need the closeness of their mothers at night. Teething, wind/gas, hot/cold, growth spurt, developmental milestone & even a wonder week(there are 10 fussy periods that babies go through), Illness & the big culprit - starting solids too early, especially cereal

Just as you can't know when your baby will first smile or start to talk or decide to give up morning naps, there's no way to predict when your baby will sleep through the night. More importantly, there's no "right age" at which your baby should. As with any developmental milestone, your baby may be earlier or later than other babies in developing new skills. Even if they did sleep through previously, it doesn't mean it's going to last long. Things change.....

In the early weeks, remember that your baby may not get enough nourishment if he sleeps through the night. Breastfed babies need to breastfeed at least eight to twelve times every 24 hours, usually every two to three hours. Most babies will gradually sleep for longer stretches at night, but they will continue to need night feedings for months.

You may have heard that giving your baby cereal will encourage sleeping longer at night. This simply isn't true. A baby's immature digestive system isn't ready for solid food until some time around the middle of the first year, and solids given too early may actually upset a baby's tummy.

Many mothers find that keeping baby close all night makes night timeparenting less tiring. Throughout history, babies and mothers have traditionally slept close to each other. The idea that a baby belongs all alone in a crib is a fairly recent notion. Many have found "shared sleeping" or "the family bed" a good way to meet babies' nighttime needs with few interruptions to the parents' sleep. Rolling over to nurse your baby and drifting peacefully back to sleep is so much easier (and warmer in the winter!) than getting out of bed, going to the crib, sitting up to breastfeed the baby, and then struggling to get both of you back to sleep. Not sure if you are bf once again :-) or if you are already co-sleeping but this might be a temporary solution.

Some authorities believe that parents need to teach babies to comfort themselves when they awaken at night, and some go as far as suggesting how long parents can allow a child to "cry it out" before responding. While such methods may work for some families, many other mothers and fathers have found peace in trusting their instincts and responding to their babies' cries. It helps to remember that babies' sleep cycles are very different from those of adults, and a young infant needs to awaken during the night in order to get enough nourishment.

Sorry for the long post, I tend to get carried away :-) Hope this will help in some way....

I went back to work when my son was 5 months old. I stressed about sleep & if I'm going to cope at work but I'm perfectly fine. I still bf him. He is a real boobie monster but we co-sleep so when he just cries for milkies through the night, I just lift my top & sleep further. He doesn't really bother me at night.

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12 years 6 months ago #247364 by leageorge
Hi Moomies,

My son is 5 and a half months old now. He used to sleep through the night (if sleepng from 21:00 - 04:00 is considered sleeping through) from 6 weeks old.
About a month ago he started waking up a lot at night. Sometimes he wakes every hour or two. We have a bed time routine but it doesn't seem help. I am starting work again in 2 weeks and really need him to start sleeping through the night again. I would appreciate any advice. Please let me know what worked for you.

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