My 16 month old hates milk!

My son was the same from about 12 months.
Just give more dairy from other products like youghurt, cheese (blocks, grated, sauce), make biscuits with milk in and look around to see what else has calcium.
If you are super worried about it then add in a calcium suppliment in a chewable tablet or liquid form for her.

My son is still going strong with the lack of milk drinking - really it doesn't matter!

ok thanks for clarifying for me ladies.

patty, yes, Yaz answered the question.

You can really add anything to it. Steamed broccoli or other veggies, cooked mince, tinned salmon/tuna.

serve with pasta and the white sauce.

Oh guys thanks a lot for the responses will try anything at this stage. @ ScribblingAl its formula Nido. She loves her cream of maize in the mornings so i also hide the milk in there will try the white sauce this weekend and give you guys feedback ok

White sauce with cheese is the best way for me to get Em to eat anything!

Patty, I suppose Gloei meant that you can hide the milk in the sauce. At least that's what I do (not that I need to hide milk for my LG, luckily she likes it). I make mine like this

melt some butter or margarine in a saucepan
pour some flour in and stir vigorously with a whisk until you have a batter like texture
add milk and keep on stirring, bring to boil, keep stirring, sauce should thicken now, keep adding milk until you're happy with the consistency of the sauce
season with salt, pepper, pinch of nutmeg

You can easily turn it into a cheese sauce by adding different types of cheeses (cream cheese, gouda/ cheddar, mozza, parmesan) - really yummy with pasta and any kind of veggies. My daughter loves it.

Pumkin, are you talking about cow's milk? Or formula?
My little one won't drink cow's milk either. I give her soya milk in her porridge or tea and she likes that. If soya's not your thing then there are other dairy substitues, like rice milk, that you could try? (if you can get her to try it, of course)