How do you stay positive?

Hi Hopeful and ilse

Its difficult and I don't have the answers. I was 6 month of the pill before I got pregnant In July but had a blighted ovum and had evacuation in Aug now I'm waiting for my normal cycle to return and its hard because I have received lots of presents and I wanted to quit on reading baby magazines and don't want to anything of babies Its to hard I would've been 12 weeks this week.....
One night lying in Bed and I asked why must it be so hard... And I thought all of the sudden of the movie facing the Giants... The couch was told the two farmers prayed for rain but only one of them prepared the field for the rain so which farmer received the rain???
So all this is preperation for the rain to come, it wont be easy but I believe the rain is coming!!!

My cousin and his wife had to wait 10 years before there beautiful angel girl was born in Aug and I have another friend who is pregnant just after being of the pill for 2 months???

Good luck to both of you and Take care and like you said to stay positive is so hard take one day at a time, I'm thinking of you and hope to join you soon as we celebrate the good news!!!

Ilse_W Thank you for the post I apreciate the words of encoragement. This is just one of THOSE months where it is particulary hard

Thank you so much for the support that is really great

Hi Hopeful

You sound devastated, I'm sorry. However, I also don't have real answers to your questions. After 24 months of being off the pill, I'm also still not pregnant, so I don't really know how to comfort you.

You ask "how does everyone do it and stay positive" - the answer - what other choice does one have to just do it and carry on? And we really don't stay positive each and every month, that will never happen. But sometimes you find new energy and continue again.

Good luck and you are not alone, there are a lot of ladies just on this forum that have been struggling for a very long time and there are wonderful positive success stories as well!

Hi there Ladies,

So AF arrived today, I was so hoping that this month was it even though I know that our chances are so limited to fall preganant naturally. My question is how does every one do it, stay positve through it all. The Ladies on this forum are amaize me you are all so wonderfull and I feel complete crushed ( again ). Every month is getting more and more difficult and it just seems like this unreachable dream that is not ment for me and DH.

All you women can be so proud of beeing such stong and amazing people.

Baby Dust to ALL