Nevashni, I am curious with which Fertility Specialist are you?
I don't believe IVF is the only way for you. What meds have you tried other than the clomid? Do you do gonal-f injections, trigger shot etc...???
I have VERY bad PCOS and with the help of the best fertility specialist in Durban Dr Sagie Naidu, we conceived both our son and our current pregnancy via IUI. My hubby has sperm issues. And even with just a medicated cycle and having intercourse at home we couldn't conceive. IUI worked for us. With this current pregnancy I fell pregnant on our second IUI and with our firstborn our first IUI worked.
All I can say is that with PCOS everything has to be done to the last detail. If a dr doesn't cover all the bases then you can't just move onto IVF. It's very expensive to do IVF and although it has higher success rates than IUI it's not the answer for everyone. It also depends on how far you are prepared to go and if you have the finances readily available for IVF right now.
Before we saw Dr Naidu we were told we would never be able to have kids. And Dr Naidu made our dreams come true. With this current pregnancy I was on femara since clomid didn't work in our previous IUI. So give femara a try if you want.
Goodluck and you are welcome to ask any questions