The Negitive results

Hi Guys

@mareedoherty i completely know how you feel, i have the same fears, and i am now 9 days late and 4 negative results, i cried so much for each of them. my husband, bless his soul, is supportive but i know how badly he wants a child. Every time i test and get a negative it feels as though a part of me is dieng and i dont know what to do. god has a plan for sll of us, i just wish he would bless us all with this miracle.

Ah guys!!

I sometimes wish we could all just get together and have a crying session to get it out of our systems!! The constant asking 'So, when's the baby coming?' etc really take their toll on a person and with family, it's worse because - it's family.
They only want what's best for you but man, they just don't understand.
Especially if you have aunts and grans that had a bunch of kids. They don't get that this day in age, there are lots of women who struggle to conceive.
My dad's mom had 6 kids and my mom's mom 4. To them, it's normal to have had so many kids while we're simply hoping and praying for one miracle.

@mareedoherty - I completely understand and know what you mean by 'Trying real hard to be positive, and have faith, but sometimes its just so hard.'
It's SO hard to keep on believing when it feels like the one thing that you are really asking for (begging for) is the one thing that you are aren't being blessed with.

Good Day

I totally understand the every function thing. The moment I am seen by family or friends, even customers and suppliers ask me the same question. Everytime a little more of me dies. I wish they would stop. I've resorted to now saying when the God Lord decides, but its fun trying, just to try and get them to back off.

this last month has been the worst for me. People tell me i'm glowing, and i'm forgetful with general stuff, and show all symptoms of being pregnant, that I think I got this "wow finally its happening" thought in my head and heart, then to take 3 pregnancy tests, all to only come back with a negative result each time, but the last test was the worst, i cried so much, felt if someone had died, that it was a deep down loss. my husband, bless his soul is so supportive, but I worry. He has said he will never leave me, but I cant help but feel that If i cant have his children (his the only child) that he will. I could never survive both the loss of a husband and the loss of having children.

Trying real hard to be positive, and have faith, but sometimes its just so hard.

Good Luck Ladies,

Hi Ladies

that negative result is the worst and the fact that it is 1st thing in the morning. its heartbreaking and as @morgan55 has said , i feel like a failure every month when that happens. i pray that god blesses me with a baby but my heart does not understand the word patience. i am now three days late for my period and i have 2 negative test results that stare back at me. its worse being and married indian girl, every function is plagued with when is the baby coming questions and i understand every one is excited for me to have one, but they dont see my inner struggle and how it is hurting.

The words that you have used, fit the situation perfectly.

I don't think many people understand how crushing it is, when that test shows a negative result. nothing anyone says will change that feeling of failure. My hubby, bless his soul, tries so hard to just be there, comfort me and tell me that its all going to be ok.

makes me so angry, when I see people having babies, even though I know i am somewhat happy for them.

Here's to hoping that things eventually come right for us.

The negative results are so soul crushing. I know what you're going through (as probably all the ladies on this site do)
For me, it's a feeling of failure (which I don't handle very well at all) and it's a feeling of being punished for something.
I don't know what to tell you, there's not much anyone can say that will make you feel 'better' about the situation.
All I know is, the heart wants what the heart wants and nothing that your head tells you eg. 'Maybe this is a sign to wait a while before having a baby' or 'Relax, just freaking relax!' makes that longing any less.

Wishing you (and all the other ladies here) the best of luck for your baby dreams.

Hi ladies,

Hope that you are all well. (Considering).

After years of a normal period cycle, the last 2 months have been a little weird. Last month I was +/- 2 weeks Earlier then my cycle check app (my Daysx)suggested. Then again this month. Over the last week or so, I have been extremely tired all the time, and hungry constantly. And I'm eating finger biscuits, which I don't do. Everyone around me keeps suggesting that I am pregnant, people having dreams.

So even though I did have my period this month, I took at test on Tuesday, (Mom told me she was 5 months along with me, before she found out she was pregnant, every month she still had her "period")

The test was negative, and in the beginning of the day, I was "okay" with it. then as the day wore on, it started to hit me, another month, another test, another piece of my heart.