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9 years 9 months ago #275869 by NicolaF
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HI ladies

Hope you are all ok?

@Hope I am SO sorry for the late reply have only just seen your earlier message. Thank you very much and so true what you say! Gotta look at the bigger picture!! thank you. I am with you on the TTC thing, I can't put myself through this every month, I literally lose my mind for two days each month when my period comes. Everyone says 'You've only been trying for one year' but to me it doesnt matter how long..it still feels like a lifetime and I still feel that sadness every month. Especially when it seems everone around me is falling pregnant at the drop of a hat!!! I honestly can't imagine what it must be like for those who have been trying for years :( But from now we are just going to let nature take its course and see what happens! Wishing you all the luck as well xxxx

@Ayesha thinking of you and all the best for your appointment. Let us know xxxx

AFM...as above! not charting, not testing, just letting things be. My pup went for her spay yesterday so being a mommy to her she hasnt left my side poor baby

babydust to all xxx

TTC #1 since March 2016
Me: 36yrs
DH: 38yrs
Endo Warrior
LAP #1 Nov 2010 (London),
LAP #2 Oct 2016 (CPT) - no endo found apparently - AWFUL gynae. Seeking second opinion
LAP #3 Aug 2017 (CPT) - 2nd opinion LAP with endo specialist - severe endo found left side & behind uterus. Removed by excision surgery
7x cycles Fertomid-Unsuccessful (June-Nov 2017, Jan-Feb 2018)
IUI #1 - March 2018 - unsuccessful
IUI #2 - July/August 2018 - unsuccessful
Praying for baby F to join us soon xxx

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9 years 9 months ago #275868 by HoPe2
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Hello ladies. Im bailing on the TTC thing and im just going to let nature take its course. No charting, no testing, no stressing. What will be will be. I wish u all the best of luck with showers of baby dust! xxx

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9 years 9 months ago #275862 by ayesha07
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Hi ladies

How are you all?

Any bfps?
Im so lost in this world....my period is 5 days and BFN so gotta go for bloods, my gp says to wait till friday as i have irregular periods and i hv a FS app in a month....im kinda scared

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EDD 20 Aug 2015

Preterm delivery 20/04/15
23 weeks

My beautiful babyboy was born at 520gr and lived for 40 minutes

He will always be the angel of my heart

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9 years 9 months ago #275840 by HoPe2
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@NicolaF yes its heartbreaking to follow the rules to get that BFP but don't forget, its not that BFP we go crazy over. Any emotional struggle we go through to get that BFP is well worth it because its not just two lines on a pee stick. Its the start of a new little life, that we get to shape, motivate, snuggle with and love. Take this rollercoaster ride for the sake of meeting ur future son/daughter.
Love and baby dust to u! xxx

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9 years 9 months ago #275837 by NicolaF
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Ladies i need your advice

Everyone says...'just forget about it and it will happen'...can someone please tell me how we are supposed to just forget about it??? We have to track our ovulation to make sure things happen at the right time, so if you are tracking it's difficult to just forget about it. and if we don't track then there's a chance we get on with our lives and we don't BD at the right time. My hubby and I get so busy with work we end up going to bed/waking up at different times that sometimes it can be a couple weeks before we even realise :(

And another question...this month AF arrived on CD26 which means I probably ovulated earlier is that right? I guess only way to check is by doing OPK but they are so expensive. I forget to take my temp in the mornings so that will be my only way I guess. or just making sure we BD all the month through...which is hard sometimes!!!

Arghhh..just feeling so over this.

TTC #1 since March 2016
Me: 36yrs
DH: 38yrs
Endo Warrior
LAP #1 Nov 2010 (London),
LAP #2 Oct 2016 (CPT) - no endo found apparently - AWFUL gynae. Seeking second opinion
LAP #3 Aug 2017 (CPT) - 2nd opinion LAP with endo specialist - severe endo found left side & behind uterus. Removed by excision surgery
7x cycles Fertomid-Unsuccessful (June-Nov 2017, Jan-Feb 2018)
IUI #1 - March 2018 - unsuccessful
IUI #2 - July/August 2018 - unsuccessful
Praying for baby F to join us soon xxx

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9 years 9 months ago #275835 by NicolaF
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@Liza great to hear from you hun :) :) xxx
@Hope, so sorry...sending big hugs xxx

I feel your pain. CD26...wake up at 4am with severe pain. AF arrives at 6am.
Heart is aching, can't stop crying
I wonder if this get's any easier

TTC #1 since March 2016
Me: 36yrs
DH: 38yrs
Endo Warrior
LAP #1 Nov 2010 (London),
LAP #2 Oct 2016 (CPT) - no endo found apparently - AWFUL gynae. Seeking second opinion
LAP #3 Aug 2017 (CPT) - 2nd opinion LAP with endo specialist - severe endo found left side & behind uterus. Removed by excision surgery
7x cycles Fertomid-Unsuccessful (June-Nov 2017, Jan-Feb 2018)
IUI #1 - March 2018 - unsuccessful
IUI #2 - July/August 2018 - unsuccessful
Praying for baby F to join us soon xxx

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9 years 9 months ago #275834 by HoPe2
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Hello ladies. So sorry for little one in NICU. Extra prayers for a full recovery. Hope they also taking care of mom, must keep her strength up.

Well, AF arrived this afternoon CD29. As expected due to cramps and nausea, its a bad one. Not so sure about tracking CM or CP anymore as it was way off. All the wrong signals. I suppose something inside me knew that this just wasn't my month. Worried I may not have a BFP month. Very discouraged at the mo.
For those in your TWW ill have FX for u!! For the preggy ladies i hope u feeling healthy and happy xxx

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