Sunrise dear, have you decided what you going to do?
There are different types of IVF, confirm with your FS which one he recommends, we did the IVF-ICSI.
I think first and foremost you have to know, as with IUI, there is a possibility of it not working the first time, normal and general is we do it for +-3 tries, but if there is an unexplained infertility there is a chance of it working first try, also age makes a difference in it working first time or not.
I think if you are like me, you would do anything, so prepare yourself, you will have to inject yourself, my dh couldn't do it for me, but I preferred doing it on my own, you will feel like a human pin cushion, but you will feel like superwoman at the same time, it is strange, but being women, we can handle many things if not everything.
Im going to break down what I had to do, they might do it different with you/different meds etc, depends ont he FS and you as an individual and also your cycle.
CD1 - BCP continue pack
CD21 - injection A at 6pm (same time everyday!)
continue injection A until told to stop
(next cycle)
CD2 - injection A plus injection B
CD3 - injection A plus injection B
CD4 - injection A plus injection C
CD5 - injection A plus injection C
CD6 - injection A plus injection C
CD7 - injection A plus injection C
CD8 - injection A plus injection C
CD9 - Scan follies, injection A plus injection C
CD10 - injection A plus injection C
CD11 - injection A plus injection C
CD13 - Scan follies, injection D at 10pm(ovidrel shot)
CD14 - injection free day, YAY!!
CD15 - at the clinic for egg aspiration.
here they give you pethadine and you are sort of out of it, you dont feel much, but you do feel a bit uncomfortable, you have to take the day off work and have someone drive you there and back home.
DH needs to give sperm sample first thing also this morning as they will fertilise your eggs the same day. (They will keep you updated as to when you need to go back to do the embryo transfer).
CD16 - start cyclogest, 3x daily, 6am, 2pm, 10pm
CD17 - embryo transfer
and then the dreaded 2ww, you will go for bloods, we were told to go after 12 days.
Continue Cyclogest up til 12w. No intercourse until you find out if its + or -, and if it iss +, no intercourse for a further 8w or until told otherwise by FS.
So that is a breakdown of how it went, you can read my blog on how it went and emotionally, might be of help, might not, I should go back and read what I had wrote.
Emptionally I was fine,there was one day that (second CD5) where I thought to myself I cant do this, how am I going to this and it was just because you might see blood when you inject yoourself, which i wasn't aware of, and that was the first time I did and I got a bit worried, knowing it was fine, but we're human, but the very next day it was fine, I counted down the days and actuallylooked forward to doing the injections, but I think that was because I knew it was "another one down, few more to go".
All in all, you can do this, if you have managed to get through the previous dr's and FS appointments, every month knowing that it is not your time, then you cann do it.
I think I prayed so much for it to work that i believed it would work, God helped me alot, and read up about it, read other blogs, So Close by Tertai Albetryn is a good one to start off with.
What scared me the most was spending the money to do it with the possibility of it not working.
What did I do differently after ET, I became lazy!

I was lucky that I did my ET on a friday, so I went home afterwards and just lay down, only got up to go to the loo, drank lots of water, the wekend was pretty much the same, I did nothing, I went to church on the Sunday, went to clicks and got meds and that was it.
Then went back to work , came home and rested, I wasn't as lazy, but I did still take it very easy. DH andi laugh now that I probably took it tooooo easy hence the triplets.
Sunrise, please let me know what you do, if you want I would like to be there with you on your journey and I would even come do your injections for you.
Please let me know how it goes.
If you have any other questions or anything please shout, I might not be able to answer some, but I might be able to help in other ways.
Thinking of you!