Hi Milou,
Wow, I am totally surprised to hear that there are other people except Amish folk who consider not having SABC/DSTV!

I thought we were the only weird ones allergic to TV. My husband and I agreed that we would not consider getting TV untill we think that she is being excluded socially for not being able to talk about the latest cool program.
She is currently 3 years old and we get age appropriate shows on dvd for her. My LG saw snippets of the olympics on a TV in a shop the other day and she loved it!
I really don't know what I would do in your shoes since I would be happy to never have TV in my house but I realise that this might have a negative effect on my child's social life. I also know how easy it is to get sucked in watching some stupid program.
Good luck with your decision, it is a tough one!