@DebbieF, sorry about af arriving,
I had a terrible weekend, my 18 year old BIL, stole FIL's bakkie to go drinking with it, then he drove into someone's yard with no licence. So FIL, gets a call from that family to come and pick his son,in that street there is a sort of club, drunk peolpe from beat the hell out of him and he was unconcious, so FIL gets there and rushes him to hospital, on his way there, he gets hit by a speeding vehicle, that his don't even stop, me and DH, we wake in the middle of the night to go and rescue them, we took him to tygerberg hospital he gets admitted and we are not allowed to see him it was horrible as his accident was on the head and neck. So we rush back to where we left FIL, to see if he getting help, the moron who drove into him does not have insurance, so is FIL( old generation he has been driving for the past 30 years never been to an accident). After the police arrive 5:30 we rush back to the hospital, to check him, shame my poor baby is driving with the whole time. We managed to see him after having to bribe the security with my 50

. Finally by 7:30 we get home, We still had to go back to where BIL drove into some's yard to make arrangement on when we will fix his yard. Early hours today he was discharged, and guess who had to fetch him us, cause all FIL' cars needs fixing, i arrived at work 8:40, the worse, i have office keys and i am sharing with a collegue, she had to wait outside for me. Oh almost forgot, we found dagga in the bakkie as well, that boy has got a nerve. i have wasted a lot of petrol and my time