file Baby waking up at night to 'play'

16 years 6 months ago #14701 by *Joli*
Teez what I did with my girls - from the very first night they were home is to NEVER talk to them, switch on the light or play with them when they woke up during the night. I would feed them, but that was it. Nothing else. I would also only change a dirty nappy or really very wet one. I used a very small touch lamp to have a bit of light for that. So basically they would wake for a feed, drink and go back to sleep. They've never wanted to play etc.

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16 years 6 months ago #14698 by julz
Hi there

Your lo should be getting enough nutrition from the solids by now so the breast milk isn't too much of a concern although it does provide amazing immunity.

If you go to him he will expect it. I know how guilty you must feel, but he needs to learn that it is sleep time.

His last feed should be at about 7 after a nice bath routine and then he should be settled for sleep.

I also don't know where he sleeps, but his own room at this age is best for everyone.

I still go into my son's room now and then if he wakes but just to cover him up. I don't put lights on or talk to him at night.

Mom of Dylan and Partner to Joerg. We live in the Beautiful Pringle Bay which is along the Whale coast, Cape.


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16 years 6 months ago #14693 by Teez
Morning mommies!

i need your advice... my 8 month old baby, wakes up about 2-3 times a night but refuses to go back to sleep. Although he is full of sleep he actually forces himself to stay awake and play! he normally plays for an hour at a time and wants me to play with him. When he wakes up, he sits in his cot and cries until I pick him up. I am a working mom and often feel guilty about him crying and ALWAYS give in. BTW - i am breastfeeding him at night. Do you think that i do not have enough milk and therefore he is still hungry?
So right now i am tired as ever and craving that cup of coffee!

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