INTIMACY

i agree communication is very important

I think most moms will have the intimacy issue as your hormones are up and down all the time, you are tired all the time and on top of that you have to juggle work and house chores.

The problem is once you'r past the baby stage, the teething stage starts. And then they start crawling and walking and some sleepless nights are staring you in the face...so you are still tired (in my case).

Hubby can't understand why I'm always tired and we've become stuck in this rut where we live more like housemates than husband and wife.

We've now realised that it is very important to comminucate with each other and you have to make time for each other / you have to do things together as a couple! You have to work at it to get that fire starting again That is why we're going away for the weekend - only the 2 of us (almost like a second honeymoon )

In the first few months after my LO was born this big empty space between my partner & I and it seemed it was filling up with all the things we didn’t say to each other. I didn’t want to get intimate with him and I wasn’t sure if I still wanted to be with him now that I had my little boy in my life. That was just baby blues coz now we couldn’t be happier…………….so don’t worry most of go through this in the beginning and your partner just needs to be understanding and supportive coz it shall pass and you will be able to enjoy your baby and him

@shonna whatever he said really worked hey

Hi Angelo,

Up to about 4 months ago yes it did change.

my lb is now 13months and it did change once he was born.

My hubby sat me down one day and spoke the honest man truth with me about what he has been thinking and what has been going on in his head. And it was Damn scary!!!

As from that day on the fire has been burning high.

Hey Ladies

do you find that the intamicy with your partner has changed. Is the fire burning more than it was before or is it non existant