Our little girl is 21 months now, I don't really remember the earlier months anymore but I think around 11 months she started showing a real interest in the TV. We got her innocent teletubby and barney dvd's and one day when I put teletubbies on for her, the next moment she came running, crying to be picked up - Noonoo scared her, the movie that the tubbies watch is of a little dog running after a ball and it upset her SO much that we stopped the tv all together for a while.
It's all nice and well and a lovely babysitter but (21months now) she's starting with nightmares after watching new things. I can't even put Nemo, Shrek, toy story 3 etc on because it's scary and they just don't understand what they are looking at.
And the other day she had just woken up from a nap and hubby and I were watching a movie (shallow hal - stupid movie but it was the only thing on and we were bored) and it went into this sex scene, we were all just sitting there and I look over and B's eyes are glued, look again and for the first time realize what I was looking at and how her little mind might be perceiving it. It frightened me how desensitized we as a society have become.
So no more normal tv unless a kiddies program that I know is ok and only dvd's that we know are okay for her and we watch it with her (even for the 100th time) and explain everything to her over and over again.