Just a response if other mommies read this... Nothing helps. We had a bottle which she sucked on, a boobie on standby, some chew-things which she chewed on and we massaged behind her ears... When the plane pressurised after doors were closed she cried, and no, not gentle crying, shrieking with pain as if 4 teeth are pushing through at the same time. It was terrible. She sucked on the bottle during this time and then we gave her the chew-things.. Then, she fell asleep on my shoulder, only to wake up as we were descending and shrieking again.
I felt so sorry for her and so hopeless when she looked at me with her tear filled little eyes and I could do nothing to make it better. We are flying back on Saturday and I don't believe in giving pain meds unless there is fever and pain but I'm starting to contemplate some Calpol 10 minutes to take-off.
If anyone has any other advice, please let me know.