i was also completely lost after having bardon seeing as i had 2 girls first. so i didnt know what to expect, i am probably one of the luckiest mom's to never have been pee'd on. i dnt do the cover thing and i even undress him on my bed and walk with him naked to the bathroom and he has not wet me so far, touch wood!!!
i phoned dr about a month ago or so to also ask now how do we clean it, cause surely it maust be cleaned properly, well, those who have older boys know, that they play with there winkie by pulling it, i have been worried he is gonna either pull it of or stretch it, cause he is only 9 months old, nearly, and when i take that nappy off he puts his hands there and grabs and pulls, well, that is there way of cleanig it. he said not to do anything to it, wash like the rest of the body. it can happen that at a later stage the skin doesnt pull back, every so often that happens, then they must snip the skin, but thats really a hardly ever happen.
so now i also know to just leave it alone