Morning Moomie Moms
I thought I would start this topic because some women fear breastfeeding, get false info from their doctors, clinic sisters, family & friends and give up way too soon.
I'm a member of the La Leche League and have read enough questions & answers to know what is true & what is not.
These leaders are trained to give factional advice and have saved many bf(breastfeeding) relationships where women wanted to give up because of false info.
I have a lot of links to back up any questions you might have.
I'm NOT here to judge any mom who choose to formula feed their baby. That is your prerogative BUT we all need to be educated properly when it comes to giving our babies the best milkies there is
My 1st born was formula fed. I wasn't educated properly, didn't do enough research, didn't get any support in hospital and gave up on day 2 because I thought I didn't have enough milk - STUPID STUPID STUPID. With my 2nd pregnancy, I changed my mindset & told myself that I'm going to breastfeed, no matter what & here I am, 11 months later, still feeding my son & so proud of myself.
So let me start off with the basic things 99% of moms have heard about breastfeeding and let's debunk them
1)Many women do not produce enough milk.
Not true! The vast majority of women produce more than enough milk. Most babies that gain too slowly, or lose weight, do so not because the mother does not have enough milk, but because the baby does not get the milk that the mother has. The usual reason that the baby does not get the milk that is available is that he/she is poorly latched onto the breast. Very important that mommy be shown from the very beginning how to latch properly on 1st day. If you struggle with the nurses, get a lactation consultant in to assist.
2) It is normal for breastfeeding to hurt.
Not true! Though some tenderness during the first few days is relatively common, this should be a temporary situation that lasts only a few days and should never be so bad that the mother dreads nursing. Anypain that is more than mild is abnormal and is almost always due to the baby latching on poorly. Any nipple pain that is not
getting better by day 3 or 4 or lasts beyond 5 or 6 days should not be ignored. A new onset of pain when things have been going well for a while may be due to a yeast infection of the nipples. Limiting feeding time does not prevent soreness.
3) There is no (not enough) milk during the first 3 or 4 days after birth.
Not true! It often seems like that because the baby is not latched on properly and therefore is unable to get the milk that is available.When there is not a lot of milk (as there is not, normally, in the first few days), the baby must be well latched on in order to get the milk. This accounts for "but he's been on the breast for 2 hours and is still hungry when I take him off". By not latching on well, the baby is unable to get the mother's first milk, called colostrum. Anyone who suggests you pump your milk to know how much colostrum there is, does not
understand breastfeeding, and should be politely ignored. Once the mother's milk is abundant, a baby can latch on poorly and still may get plenty of milk. What also ties in with this statement where a mother thinks she doesn't have enough milk is, DON'T feed on a schedule. The more baby feeds, the quicker your milk will come in. Don't stretch for 3/4 hours. Demand demand demand is key here and if baby wants to feed every hour, 1 1/2 hours or 2hourly.......that is perfectly normal.