Gee Ashleigh, and I thought I was organised - lol!
I guess i have the advantage of this not being baby numba 1, so a couple of things are being handed down from "big" bro!
Michelle, I think where Ashleigh has started is a good place... getting all the big things out the way and then leaving the smaller things to the shower, if you have one that is... One thing for sure is don't leave it to last minute coz it will cost a fortune!
I must be honest though, I never waited 'til my shower becoz I didn't get one, not being local contributed I guess, but friends came to visit with their gifts after baby was born!
What i think is possibly a good idea is, on good months get 1 or 2 big items (cot, car seat, steriliser etc) & on months when the budget is not so good, get smaller items, bottles, towels, nappies (you'll never have enough of these, so you can constantly buy different sizes as and when u can)... if you find by the time baby is almost due and your friends/fam are going to have a shower for you, ask for gift vouchers from Woolies or whichever place instead, so you can go and pick out stuff that you still need or shop when baby is older (they're normally valid for a year +) and what's nice about a shop like Woolies is you can use the vouchers for all sorts, baby food, milk, not necessarily clothes!
What do you guys think?