Jan & Feb 2010 Mommies

Christelle- Shame poor Zani its horrible when they are sick!!!!

Yoza - glad to hear all went well. Yes we do need to arrange a mornign for all moms to get together. Maybe end March and we can go to bugz world or something.

Christelle - Lorelai hanteer dit nie bje goed nie, die tanrums en sy huil klok slag saans vanaf half 7 vir haar pa (voor ons getrek het, was ons saans by my ma tot hannes ons kom haal het half 7 so nou is sy gewoond aan die feit dat hy daai tyd al daar is.) Dis hoekom ek haar moet speen van haar pa op die stadium want dit kan nie 24/7 so gaan nie. Amandalynn is net te bly om weer by haar ouma te bly (sy sien hulle mos eintlikas haar ma en pa ) Maar het nou al gesit en met haar gepraat oor dit alles Hannes wil he sy moet ook naweke saam kuier maar Amandalynn se sy wil nie oorslaap nie, maar die keuse is haarne.

Ek moet Woensdag in hof toe gaan om die aansoek te gaan ingee vir die parental rights en responsibilities kontrak so dan vat dit gewoonlik 3 -4 weke en dan ook my onderhoud goes ingee. het n moomie mom wat my help met my papier werk. maar die werk help ook bje. te plus of working for a law firm

Shame Charlotte, hoe hanteer Lorelai en Amandalynn die hele storie?

Ek dink nie jy is onredelik nie met jou vereistes nie. Soos wat jy self sê, jy moet jou kind se belange eerste sit.

Het jy al enige idée van wanneer die hofsaak sal voorkom?

Christelle - you finally joined yeah

just a quick comment - the one day a weekend will only be until things are done at court as i need her to settle in a new enviroment and need her to realise/learn that she lives with me and visits her father. in my court application it is noted that she will be spending vfriday - sunday every second weekend by him in wednesday for 2 hours. she is very attached to her dad and dont get me wrong i love it, but because of it she gets very difficult when he is not around and this is the only way that i can teach her. hope it makes sens. Im trying to stay as calm as possible even when he is screaming and swearing, currently i have asked him to email me if he needs anything to prevent argument. the most important thing for me is my girls, i dont care about me (which is also a problem) he is a awesome dad even to amandalynn but i need to do what is best for my child at this stage and going to him every second night and sleeping over is not going to help, i have tried to dicuss other options with him and its like speaking to a brick wall!!! im over the emotions i'll deal with my emotions (or at least try to) when they are with him. ive been through this and it gets easier weirdly enough

hope it all makes some sense

SO I JUST CALLED EP AS I WAS WORRIED ABOUT HER... MY MIND IS A EVIL PLACE - - -

SHE IS OKAY BUT WILL BE MOVING AGAIN BECAUSE THEY PLACE THAT THEY MOVED INTO IS CRAP. 2 DAYS BEFORE THE MOVE SOME1 POISENED HER DOG, SO SHE NEEDS TO DEAL WITH THAT (HE IS OKAY) HER KIDS ARE DRIVING HER CRAZY AS THEY CANNOT REALLY PLAY OUTSIDE BECAUSE THE FRONT YARD IS NOT A YARD AND THERE ARE PPL LIVING IN THE APARTMENT AT THE BACK SO THEY CANT BE NOISY OUTSIDE.

SHE CAN ALSO NOT ACCESS THE INTERNET AS SHE HAS NO SIGNAL AND IT IS DRIVING HER CRAZY!!!!

BUT SHE SAYS HI AND SHE MISSES ALL OF US!!!

Hello ladies

Welcome to the new ladies.

Juno: I hope th lump is nothing serious to and that your back recovers

Zodwa: yay on the move looking forward to meeting you.

CT mummies: what ever happened to our meet.

As for sibas op. It went well his at home recovering. driving the nanny insane.

will comment later.

Hi Everyone,

Hope it is ok if I join in. Thanks for the invite Charlotte.

I have been reading the post for quite some time, but have never posted anything until now. Well, they do say better late than never 

Zani has the most terrible barking cough for the past day and a half and last night she developed a slight fever (37.7). She also sounds kinda hoarse and she has a bit of a smelly breath. Hope it is not tonsillitis, but many people at work thinks it might be croup. I am taking her to the doctor this afternoon. Also did not take her to crèche this morning as I don’t want her to make the other kids sick. Luckily my mom lives very close to us so she said to bring Zani to her this morning. That does give me some peace of mind as I know my mom will phone me if she gets any worse during the day. This morning the cough was terrible, but the fever was down to 37 which is sort of her normal temp anyway. Just hope it is nothing serious!

Ep – how did the move go? Are you all settled now? How are the kids at school?

Lolli – If you don’t have anyone to look after Tristan and you don’t feel comfortable leaving him with someone you don’t know, then take him with. Like Charlotte said, there will be many helping hands around. I only woke up to the fact that there will be a CT ladies night yesterday, so feeling quite sad that I wont be there, but with Zani a bit sickly it is probably for the best.

Charlotte – I don’t know the reasons behind you break-up and I don’t know how things are between you and Hannes at the moment, but I just want to give a word of caution regarding the situation that is developing between the two of you. I have seen this happen many times (married and non-married folk) and if you are not careful, the only one that will be suffering is Lorelai. I know it can’t be easy, but you need to keep your side clean and kinda take the high road. Be accommodating until the court hearing, maybe that way it won’t be such a fight between the two of you. I completely agree regarding not sleeping out during the week, but is there a reason that Hannes cannot have Lorelai over a weekend (Friday – Sunday)? Please do not take any of this the wrong way, but feelings are running high at the moment and a breakup is always an emotional thing and even more so when there are kids involved so you need to be extra careful.

So maybe I have 5 more minutes... lol

Juno shit about the lump... any news?

Zodwa - So glad to hear CT will be your new home... awesome for you. And dont get toooooo excited about winter, doubt that is ever happening!!!

Lolli - As soon as the court things are sorted if he is a day late i will have him arrested!!!!!