July 2009 Moms

Justine, strongs xxx will be thinking of you. Do what is best for you and the boys.

Deja congrats on the toofies!

Just went to the beach for a short while....damn it was hot!

Thanks ladies, I really appreciate all your advice. Im will be off soon so wish me luck. My heart and my mind are telling me 2 different things. Will see how it goes tonight and take it from there. Be back in 2 days time

Justine..just wanted to add, since I was 16 my parents' relationship were horrible..and to this day I think it's better to have a single parent, than to have two constantly fighting parents in one house. BUT then I also have to add, don't just give up if you feel it can be saved..sometimes a relationship just needs some work (from both sides). xxx

You are not the worst advisor, in fact, everything you have said make so much sense. I just feel that if he could do it once, he could lie again and then what? All I am expecting from him is to say sorry I was wrong. I think Im going to sit down with him tonight and we need to discuss what we dont like about each other and what needs to change. I dont know if that will help at all. I grew up without a dad (he passed when I was 9) and I miss him everyday so I dont want my boys to go through the same. Man how I wish my mom was here close by
I have not been out with friends or by myself since I fell pregnant with Kyle so one night should not have been a problem with him.
Thanks for all your advise. You are awesome

Justine I'm so sorry to hear about the problems between you and BF!! I really hope that he comes to his senses and sees that what he did was wrong. Thinking of you!! xx

Pat, I'm transferring money now, but it will probably only show in your account in 2days seen as we're different banks. Will send you a proof of payment though

Haha Charlene, moes nou lag vir jou en jou puke bucket. Ek het meestal 'n toe neus (danksy Allergiee) maar as ek die slag 'n oop neus het dan staan en gag ek ook vir M se doeke!

Deja, hope you feel better soon!! xx Congrats with the toofies. M still only has 4teeth M het vanoggend hartverskeurend gehuil toe ek haar afgelaai het by die creche. Ek wou sommer saamtjank!!!

Lizel sterkte met die tande! Hoop Z slaap goed vannag

my parent went through a aweful divorce when i was 15, and i swear it has scarred me for life, i dont trust men at all, even my husband, in a certain way, so anything small and i catch a glitch, so im probably your worst advisor at the moment, but i know with my mom, she also walked away with nothing, gave her life and walked out empty handed and we were the ones that suffered, so if i can give any advice would be to do whatever you have to do for your kids!!!
its quite scary how it doesnt matter what they do, but we are not suppose to have another life outside work and kids.
you will make the right choice, you are a very wise woman...

Charlene, I just needed to hear it from someone else. I am feeling exactly as what you have said. The thing that bugged me was when I got home, he was angry because I went and watched a movie without telling him where I went. I was like . The thing is, I have never minded him going anywhere just as long as I know where he is. He isnt like this at all. He has never done this before. I know we are going to have a fight tonight but not in front of the boys. Jaydon picks up on things very quickly. I told him I dont anything, I want me and my boys to be happy and will walk away with nothing but you have made me think, I gave up 8 years of my life for him and I gave him the best gift, 2 amazing boys, so he owes it to me.