file July 2009 Moms

16 years 4 months ago #45235 by Lonie
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Ai Charlene, so jammer om te hoor dat Bardon weer siek is, ek hoop regtig dit waai oor..daar is geen manier om n perfekte ma te wees nie, maar wel 1000 manier om n goeie ene te wees en dink regtig as jy van my kant af kyk lyk jy soos een van daai Supermoms. Dink al die stress van siek kinders, jou kar, jou man se werk en FIL issues dra maar by, party dae dink ek n lekker dag by die spa net vir jouself kan wondere verrig! Sterkte en sal aan jou dink.

Deja, jammer dat jou naweek so hectic was, ek kan dink dat dit glad nie maklik is nie..ek weet wat net n paar dae alleen doen vir my gemoed, ek wil nie eers weet hoe jy moet voel nie.

Amber is van gister af sooo moeilik..haar oogtand kom nou deur en sy het ook al huilies aan die slaap geraak..dink daar le nog n moeilike aand vir my voor!!
My ma hulle kom dalk volgende week kuier wanneer my man Zim toe gaan..ek hoop dit realiseer!!

Marijke, hoe gaan dit daar by julle??
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16 years 4 months ago #45191 by Moomie Admin
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Ag Charlene, ek voel so jammer vir jou en jou situasie! Dis so moeilik. En kan hy nie eerder uittrek nie? Dan hoef jy nie al die kids se goed te vat nie? Dan slaap hy net 'n paar aande by iemand anders?
Ek is hier vir jou, hoor. Enige tyd, bel, sms, kom bly, whatever!

Hallo Marijke.

Marilu, hoe gaan met Migs?

Binks, I hope Arwen gets better soon. I am broody!

Nou vir my moan...ook, scroll af as julle nie wil lees.

I am alone at home this weekend and am working. So imagine going to a murder scene with NIenke on my hip, working while she wreaks havoc in the office, trying to balance running after work and just managing on my own. I feel like I can't go on like this. I don't have the support structure I need here, I miss my family, I miss the sea, I miss the mountains. I miss having something to do on a fabulous day like today. I have more appointments this afternoon where I have to take N with because there is no-one she can stay with. Then I have to go back to the office AGAIN and go work. Am so negative and really, really tired. My house looks as if a tornado hit it.

Also feel bad because I let her cry herself to sleep TWICE today. In my arms but still. She threw a massive tantrum both times when she had to go sleep and I just let her cry it out. Feel terrible but if I took her out of the situation, she would have played outside till tomorrow and never had her nap.

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16 years 4 months ago #45171 by binks
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O no i took Arwen to Dr Friday night when hubby got her from creche, We know if they left it just gets worse. Wasnt going to take a chance not over a weekend.
I dont know what to say to make you feel better just that im really thinking of you, and i know you'll do what you need to.
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16 years 4 months ago #45170 by Charlene
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marijke: dankie... jy my nou lekka laat huil maar dink dis wat ek nodig het... vandag put on a good face, have my brother coming over and gotta put on happy smile, hate the fakeness...

binks: seems croup in the air, debbi's little boy bryce also has croup but very badly, he is very sick!!!
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16 years 4 months ago #45168 by binks
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Hi all

Charlene thinking of you.

Dont remember much of the posts.

Just a quick update Arwen has croup, but not to bad think we caught it soon, but she still her busy self.

Will chat tomorrow if we not busy at work tonight.
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16 years 4 months ago - 16 years 4 months ago #45167 by Marijke
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Ai Charlene my friend. If you feel in your heart that it's the best thing to do then I think you should try it. Perhaps it would give you both perspective. It's difficult enough as it is with healthy children to have a good relationship with a husband but I can just imagine what the stress of sick children do to us.

Don't feel bad please. I'm sure that bardon being sick doesn't mean that you can't do anything right. It's the weather and outside forces. Don't beat yourself up about it. We all know that if anyone could wrap their children in bubble wrap and keep them tightly wrapped up in your arms then it would be you.

Chin up girl, you know we are all here for you, always *mwah*
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16 years 4 months ago #45165 by Charlene
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hello everybody...

i need to moan and know i can do it here, who doesnt wanna her it, scroll down... hee hee
hubbie and i are not good, i have started talking to him again, but things are just not good or they dont feel good, he never talks to me actually and if i speak to him making conversation then i just get a look or small answer back and thats it... i think i wanna do a seperation and see how it goes. i will move to my mom for 2 weeks or so and see what we decide to do then...

also bardon is sick again, yip, went well for 2 weeks and now he has got this wonderful bronchitis cough again, chest is super noisy and this is not what i need!!!
i feel so wasted. i am really starting to feel like there is nothing i can actually do right.
i cant even keep my kids healthy.
argh!!!!!!!

marilu: hoe gaan met mignione?
deja: hi!!!!!!!!!!
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