Caesar gone bad

Shame Des, so sorry you had to go through all that, caesars are a major abdominal surgery with risks, glad you are doing much better and your bungle is so precious it make you appreciate them even more, glad you are back.

Des Des fistly your bundle is totally gorgeous.

I am so sorry for all that you have been through.

Like with any surgery there are always risks for complications and while they don't occur often they do occur and for the patient it is horrible and scary.

I had shocking complications and while the rate of my compliction is higher in the c section group I can't say that it wouldn't have happened anyway. Still not nice to be sick for so long afterwards.

I must commend you for trusting your body and knowing that there was something wrong even when doctors told you not to worry and to just take meds.


I am really pleased that it is sorted now and that you are feeling better.

Again this is the exception not the norm. I hated being the exception and in my case it is like 1 in 30 000 women who experience my complication and for most gynaes it only happens once in their career so I felt really miffed at the time!

What I am saying is you have a right to feel upet that things didnt go well so you need to take the time to recover physically and emotionally.

Hugs to you.

Aaah Des sorry to hear about the ceasarean pain your bundle of joy is soooooo cute

My bundle of joy.

Joli, don't worry. I guess I am just one of those cases.

The first 4 months I was taking care of my baby myself. I enjoyed it and we bonded. I love her so much.
At 5 months I had a nanny, whose brother died the day I was admited to hospital and she had to go home.
My partner and his sister were taking care of LK while I was in hospital and my mom came to help out after I was discharged. We had to find another nanny as I can not fully take care of the baby and the other one did not know when she would return.

The funny thing is I feel like I went for 4 caesars but came with 1 baby.
After that pain I think I can have lipo, it can't be that bad. Yeah, rite I believ that.

That is absolutely horrible Des Des.
I really hope your recover soon so that you can put all this pain and suffering behind you. I hope you have a support system to help you out with your children at home?
Look after yourself and best of luck with your recovery.

Thanks for sharing, I think it is important to know the risks also involved with a c-sec. It is truely still major surgery as it is always referred to.

Oh no that's terrible. Shame man. Yes how did you cope with a new baby as well???

Gosh the closer my due date comes, the more I'm getting worried!!