Rest in Peace Baby Nkazi (Baby to Kaylae)

Kaylae - I am not sure what to say, nothing I say can have any effect, and will never reduce the pain you must be feeling or even soften it for a fleeting moment.

I read this thread and I think that every one of us feels for you, but we will never know the depth of your pain, and the painful journey that you will be going through at the moment, and all we can do is stand here and try to circle around you in support and know that you are in our thoughts.

We think of you, and those who do offer prayers, while others offer you support. Even though that offers little comfort, know that we are here for when you need us ... for anything ..... when ever you feel you need us .... even when you don't.

This is not meant as comfort, but when I read this thread I thought of this quote:

A wife who loses a husband is called a widow. A husband who loses a wife is called a widower. A child who loses his parents is called an orphan. But...there is no word for a parent who loses a child, that's how awful the loss is! - Neugeboren 1976, 154

Kaylae - may Baby Tshami spirit live with you in your soul, where you smile together and you are able to hold her close, and she can whisper sweet words of comfort to you when you need them the most ....

hi ladies

Kaylae says thanks for all the kind words...she wont be coming back on for a few weeks. She is seeing a psychologist in 6 weeks and should get some test results back too by then.

EP - women can choose (in private) how to deliver a stillborn. But there are less risks of infection to the mother and less risk of complications to mom from delivering naturally than via c-section.
They also found that mom's who birth vaginally can begin the mourning process more effectively as they are part of the process instead of the baby 'just being taken out of them'.

My thoughts and prayers are with you. My heart really goes out 2 you.

RIP sweet angel

Kaylae I only saw this thread today. I am so, so sorry. My heart goes out to you and your family.
Please know that I will keep you in my prayers.

Kaylae I don't think that parents who have lost a child ever fully recover. You must be completely broken and need to deal your loss in whatever way is best for you. People will try to say things to make you feel better, but often it may make you feel worse.

Sadly no one can understand what you are feeling or going through right now and you probably feel so alone.

I am so sorry for your loss.

My thought and prayers are with you. I dont know you but I am a mommy and cant imagine how you feel like.

Please try to take it one day at a time.

Lee-Ann (vickylee)

Kaylae, I am soo soo sorry! Im sitting at my desk crying! My heart goes out to you. No words can ever heal the pain - but I really am sorry and believe that in time your heart will heal a bit!

x