Rest in Peace Baby Nkazi (Baby to Kaylae)

Kaylae you are such a strong woman, you def should not listen to them you need to mourn even though you will never forget but it will get better as time goes on.

i am in tears as im reading your post, dont be strong cry as much as you feel like, it will make you feel better i know.

Rest in peace young woman, mom and dad and the rest of your family loves you and i know you are watching at them right now.

((((((Hugs Kaylae))))))

Kaylae, of course you have as much right to mourn as any othe rperson who lost a loved one. Your family should respect that, even if they don't understand it. Don't try to be "strong" cry if you must. Moomie friends are here for you.

Meags wrote:

Ladies - your words are so lovely and I am sure Kaylae appreciates all the thoughts and prayers xx

She is being induced to deliver naturally. She has had an epidural so now she is just waiting. Doctors say it is a fresh stillborn and she is thinking of investigating the cause of death

I am sorry - My intention is not to be/sound unsympathetic, but why must she delievr naturally? Is it her choice or the gynie'ss? This has always botehred me, that women must give birth to still born babies naturally... Aren't they in enough pain already?

So sorry to hear this Kaylae, my heart goes out to you.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Its important to mourn this loss, cry as much as you can and remember we are hear for you.

xxx

So sorry for your loss Kaylae. May your baby rest in peace, and please do all the crying you need to do.

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Kaylae- so so sorry for your loss! I agree with Meags, you NEED to mourn, no matter what anyone else says or feels, there is no greater loss than that of a mother losing her child, if you don't mourn now you may regret it. 2.9kg does sound really big for 32w considering the last 8m are when the baby does the most growing, I think it would be fair to investigate Meags' idea of GD because it may be a re occuring issue in the future.

You are so unbelievably strong, I send you all the love and best wishes in the world! Xxxxx

Kaylae I am so sorry for what you have gone through. Please do cry and mourn the loss of your precious angel. 2.9kg is very big for 32 weeks-perhaps ask them to investigate you for diabetes? It could help knowing that information for the future.

We are all here for you. No one expects you to just get over it or forget it everr happened. Your baby Tshami will be sorely missed. She is now watching down on tou from above and one day you will be joined with her and get to see her beautiful smile.