Thanks for the updated list Lindy...sjoe there are only 2 girls...hehehe looks like they gonna have lotsa admirers
Sal you just made my day lol those pics are too precious. We have 5 cats. The eldest is 3 years old and a big cat, one is 1.5yrs old, and the other 3 are 10 months old. The last 4 are very tiny cats ( i think short legged). They are very attached to me and DH but more me lol. we have so far trained them not to go into the baby room. So far so good. I dont think our kitties will be a prob coz they are very loving cats. I sometimes wonder where they came from coz they aint normal, they are inside 24/7 except when going outside for the loo. LOL every night when we go to bed they follow and make themselves comfy at our feet.
Anyway about our diets...sjoe in the beginning I also tried to be strict. But I find as long as my breakfast and dinner is healthy then I am ok. I havent picked up much weight this far, but then again i was chubby before falling preg. I just feel that pregnancy is a special journey and I dont wanna waste my time freaking out about calories. Obviously not over indulge but I think if you keep to 3 meals a day and snacks in between then you are fine. If you gain alota weight during your pregnancy then obviously your body needed it and your baby.
And its perfectly normal to snack more often. Especially when you are in your second trimester. Your baby needs the carbs to bulk up for delivery
Jafraser I hear you on the bladder kicks. My baby thinks my bladder is a trampoline. And I don't know if any of you have experienced this, but sometimes baby is really pressing on my bladder so when I sneeze or cough I HAVE to run to the loo

DH finds this hilarious.
Shame sorry to hear about your retrenchment. We are getting ready for me to stop working, so finances are also becoming limited. I have like 2 paydays left and its scary. But you right, family are always more than willing to help. Since being on bedrest I have realized just how much my family cares. My dad and sister did my grocery shopping and my brother bought the curtain rods for the baby room (with my card lol). But its all a huge help. I think babies just do something to a family.
Gosh Sal my one cat Zeus looks just like your cat. LOL and has the same kinda nature. Always a bundle of love.
So I just put the lamb bredie/stew in the slow cooker. Hubby can make the pap. LOL I can only stand for so long.
Mmm I have really been thinking about my birthplan since all this drama happened. I feel a little guilty, but my gut says to rather opt for a csec. I feel like my body couldnt fall preg on its own, and now it battled to keep baby in. So I really wonder if a natural birth is just gonna be too much stress on me and baby. Has anyone else been wondering about their birthplans?