Thanks again ladies. but all is over now.
she does not have a sist but the placenta did not stop growing and that was what was so big, it took all Linike's food and she didnt grow at all.
She is already 25 weeks now and baba is only 170grams, there are no deformities but she is very small and from the last scan, she did not grow at all, so basically she just stopped growing. The doctor said her heart wont make it and she can either continue and wait for her heart to stop or they can terminate it now.
They are both broken and very sad, both said to me, but she is normal, we could have had her.
i think its difficult to understand and we will always have questions but im sure the specialist would not have made this decision if he thought there was something he can do for her.
she already received her first induction, they have to bring the birth on now and it can take up to 4 days so she will be in hospital for a while now. then they have to tell their LB - just last night he scolded at my LB for sitting on my sisters lap and 'he is going to hurt my sister'
thanks for all the support i will tell her that a lot of woman are thinking off her!