heart PLEASE say a prayer for my little sister & her DH

15 years 3 months ago #189754 by Simone C
oh Grenaat...I dont know what to say... There is no point asking questions as it won't change anything.

Sending lots of prayers to your sister and her DH and their LB....can't imagine what they are going through:(

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15 years 3 months ago #189749 by Grenaat
Thanks again ladies. but all is over now. :(

she does not have a sist but the placenta did not stop growing and that was what was so big, it took all Linike's food and she didnt grow at all.

She is already 25 weeks now and baba is only 170grams, there are no deformities but she is very small and from the last scan, she did not grow at all, so basically she just stopped growing. The doctor said her heart wont make it and she can either continue and wait for her heart to stop or they can terminate it now.

They are both broken and very sad, both said to me, but she is normal, we could have had her.

i think its difficult to understand and we will always have questions but im sure the specialist would not have made this decision if he thought there was something he can do for her.

she already received her first induction, they have to bring the birth on now and it can take up to 4 days so she will be in hospital for a while now. then they have to tell their LB - just last night he scolded at my LB for sitting on my sisters lap and 'he is going to hurt my sister'

thanks for all the support i will tell her that a lot of woman are thinking off her!

3 Jaar gelukkig getroud
Pragtige seuntjie, HENKO - gebore 1 Januarie 2009.
Nog n pragtige seuntjie, RUBEN - gebore 5 November 2010!
Baba nr 3? Mmmmmmmm ;)

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15 years 3 months ago #189723 by Skai
Just wanted to say that all of us on the August/September 2011 thread are thinking of her and keeping her and the rest of the family in our prayers!

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15 years 3 months ago #189706 by Grenaat
thank you to all the inspirational stories! miracles do happen

my stomach is in a knot and my nerves are finished. i am already tearing up and i thought i would be strong today. its just so hard cause she is so strong and calm and now im all emotional, and its my little sister, im suppose to look after her and take away her pain.

3 Jaar gelukkig getroud
Pragtige seuntjie, HENKO - gebore 1 Januarie 2009.
Nog n pragtige seuntjie, RUBEN - gebore 5 November 2010!
Baba nr 3? Mmmmmmmm ;)

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15 years 3 months ago #189698 by crazylove
gernaat i can also confirm that mircles do happend

with my 3rd unplanned baby the doc mention that my placenta is growing much faster than baby and he was worried about the baby face. he see signs of a cleft lip
i had to go through 3 days of waiting and tests and today i can just kiss the perfect lips.

for the 3 days all i could do was pray and have faith .....for me faith move mountains

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15 years 3 months ago #189679 by lollipop
Grenaat, my cousin was born with Spina bifida, her brain was half exposed too, and today she is healthy and happy and fully functioning (and a very pretty young girl).

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15 years 3 months ago #189652 by Moomie Admin
Grenaat, it must have been a terrible few days for them. I am keeping them in my prayers. xxx

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