Hello Chanz, This is what I experienced as I have an incompetent/weak cervix. I lost my baby in 2009 at 22 weeks due to an incompetent cervix. I also had bleeding but for me it was too late to put the cerclage then because my cervical length was already too short. That was my first pregnancy and my doc did not know that I could have an incompetent cervix because i have never had any procedures done down there. So he did not have any reason for doing cervical scans(This is not meant to scare you)
I fell pregnant again in Dec 2009. My doc started doing cervical length scans from my first appointment, these are done vaginally. At 13 weeks my cervical length was 4.2cm and at 17weeks it had shortened to 3.2cm. At that point my doc booked me in for the cerclage and it was done that same week. I stayed at home for a week, then went back to work. With an incompetent cervix, you have to rest as much as you can, no hard work.
I didn't experience anything else out of the ordinary afterwards. My LG was born via c-section on 10 August last year. They took out the cerclage during the c-section after the baby was born. I had taking the cerclage off is also a bit painful.
There is an international organisation called Sidelines. Their website address is
www.sidelines.org/. They are also on facebook and twitter. They are a non-profit organization providing international support for women and their families experiencing complicated pregnancies and premature births. I used them during my pregnancy and my support person was of great help. What they do is they link you up with someone who has had a similar experience as you and you get to chat and the person usually gives you lots of support.
I hope and pray that everything works out well for you and the baby.