Oct/Nov 2008 mommies!

Thanks Simone. No intentions of going to the chiro unless it gets worse. I usually see her on a Saturday but this week we have stock count and attendance is compulsory

I sent you mail but not sure if you got it.

Shame Lisha...hectic night Hope today flies for u and that Shreyan is not going to get too sick. You going to see Chiro?

Morning ladies

Vix thanks for the good wishes xxx. How did the boys sleep?

Simone & Mandy yes he was very lucky that he got to sleep in but trust me I didn't hide my annoyance at the entire situation lol. We usually get up the same time every weekend but guess he had too much fun all weekend so was tired but that's not my problem. I do plan on making some me time this weekend but need to see how I can fit it in as I have stock count at work on Saturday.

Nelria hope all the property transactions go through quickly.

Mandy I hope your sister figures out what's best for her and her kids, you are right that there is no rush to make big decisions quickly. Hope her husband changes his mindset though. Mind Power by John Kehoe is an excellent read for him at times like this.

Hope Cam settles in his big bed soon.

Simone sorry about the tough time you're going through. I hope that things improve on all fronts for you and good luck acting busy for the director ... don't blame you for being disappointed in her

AFM had a HORRIBLE night. Been battling with back & neck pain and had a myprodol before bedtime. Then Shrey seems to have a cold and insisted on sleeping with me but on my pillow as well grrrrrr. And then he kept waking up moaning every 30 mins I'm sure. Feeling very tired and very sorry for myself today but hey work needs to go on and will hopefully make the day zoom by!!!

Morning ladies

Nelria fx the deal goes through with the house! SOunds promising!

Julz sounds like you had a lovely time with the concert;-)

Lelani...you know I got my fx and everything else for you!!! Please keep me updated!!!!!!!!!!

Mandy I totally agree with you...there is no need to rush this decision...do everything you can right now...so you dont walk away with regrets! Well...your sister I mean. Its a big step...I would always hope a couple can work things out and stay together, but I see the thing about her losing respect for him. My husband would go and clean toilets if he had to for us to eat...so her hubby should feel the same way for his family....it must be such a strain on your sister:-( Let us know how it goes.

Thanks for asking...last night I had a good cry and ate a bit...well a lot! Then I felt okay....this morning I'm feeling very low. Its the fact that I didnt get the job which was confirmed yesterday...I really planned way to much thinking I was getting that job....its month end again...so the usual month end bill worries....then the fact that I had a glimmer of hope of being pregnant for about 2 hours....been bad on my diet...just feeling low and like an all round failure. Also got director here today...just feel so betrayed by her so dont want to see her.....

Sorry that was a mouthful... Let me start planning how to look busy when you have no work

HI all

Zee glad appointment went well, wow so knowing you are 7.5 weeks now, how many weeks when you found out? Sorry about Z.. shame she must be eina!

Julz - hope your life slows down a little, how are you feeling, you were so sick so recently and now so busy?

Shame my sister is really agonising over decisions about her marriage.. and she is being pulled in different directions from the family.. She had decided to end things over the week end and then has been reconsidering. The thing is, I dont see anything left in her relationship to salvage. Not to go into too much detail about their relationship, their main problem is that he stopped looking for a job. He has been without work for 3.5 years besides renovating the odd kitchen or bathroom ( as the labourer - he did this in the uk and did very well for himself then) but the only people who are mostly giving him work now are his family - to help him!! and my sister is slaving away daily, trying to keep it together with 2 kids in school , a bond and a husband and she feels like a sinking ship ALL THE TIME..

To me she is just holding on because if she decided to leave her husband she will carry the burden of breaking her childrens little hearts ( at 5 and 3yrs ) and she is so worried about them.. but she has tried EVERYTHING - helped him with cv, used contacts, introduced him to potential work, left him to figure things out, been patient, pushed him hard, and now the result is that she feels she is loosing respect for him as he refuses to find a way .. he could even be a waiter if he REALLY wanted to make a plan, but he wont!!

anyhow she has decided to start with a life coach to sort through her emotions, ideas and future possiblities.. and I said, there is really no rush when it comes to big decisions like this. THere is alot at stake so she should just take one day at a time.. and I told her my only concern is that the kids are not being caught in the middle of their arguments.. its better to bring your kids up with a happy but single mom, setting the right examples than an unhappy marriage with a dad that has given up and is miserable...

We all wish her dh would just realise that he is the only person that can change his fate...

okay gotta go, Cameron work up 5 times last night in his new bed.. I think the novelty has waorn off and now he is really getting used to it, I think a bit of sleep training is required now.. if I keep going in when he cries, then he starts doing it more often!!

Simone, how are you?

Lisha - you have a lucky husband, I suggest you plan some MEEE time so that he can return the favour now

Hi ladies

Just a quick pop in to let you know about the gynae appointment. I'm not as far along as I hoped to be, the due date is 7 October and I'm seven and a half weeks along.
We heard the heart beat and the idea of another baby is now sinking in!

Before my gynae visit, I had to take Z to the doctor, she's got a bad ear infection. Poor thing, we also had a very bad night with her. I'm exhausted!


Hope all the children and their moms are doing great!
Got to go now, lots of work.
Z

xxx

Hi ladies

Wow so sorry for being so MIA. Hectic time. I have read all of the posts which took an hour .

Zee how did it go today???

Nicole I am sorry that k is so sick. shame poor little man!

I am hitting a huge blank.

Ally sounds like you enjoyed CT!

Christi I am so sorry about your new employment!!!

Nelria fx for you regarding the house. Hope the sleep issue is sorted. x Oh and good luck with the interview even if it is for telesales. Does alot to get started with interviews so either way positive.

Lelani I can't even look at dates until I am back from India.

Wow it has been rediculous. Juggling everthing is hard. Mom arrived last Sunday. Went to u2 which was great. Preferred previous show, but the stadium was amazing!!!! Enjoyed the fan walk too. took us 4 hours to walk 2.5km. Really amazing vibe!!!

Dylan was an angel for my mom and took to her so well! Sister arrived on Sunday. It was awesome to see her again and Dylan called her mommy. We look alike. He even slept on her lap!!! My brother arrived today. Have not seen him for nearly 5 years so tears all round and his girlfriend is lovely!

Dylan is really sick though. Had a fever for a couple days and the meds help, but tonight the fever persisted despite paracetamol. Phoned the hospital to find out if I can add voltaren sup to the mix as I know they will work and I have an appointment for tomorrow. Shame his nose is also bleeding and he is coughing alot BUT still a happy chap so not too worried.

Work is really crazy and I am not sure how I am going to get everthing done so will be mia for the next couple day s I recon.

Chat again and have a lovley evening ladies/ x