Oct/Nov 2008 mommies!

SIMONE`S MAN STANDING WITH CAMERA

THE ---LELANI FEED ZIAN AND DYLAN IN GREEN

OK TRYING AGAIN

COLE WITH BLUE T-SHIRT STANDING WITH ANGIE`S AUNT

SIMONE WITH TH ESTUNNING PINK DRESS AND MISS ADDY IN PURPLE AND ZAID NEXT TO ADDY IN RED

Morning Ladies ....

Simone ,thank you glad you back home safe .......

Vix I really hope things come to a really good end for you !!!!You deserve it .

Just some pics of the meet I really didnt take great pics I was to lazy to get up from my seat SORRY

Oh I am back finally! MIssed chatting so much!

vix it broke my heart everyday to read what you are going through and I just could not post. I just have tears in my eyes when I think of all you are going through.

Your mom, firstly needs a fu****** kick in the arse! WTF did she come and do there if she isnt helping you and YOU ARE WASHING DISHES??? Oh my word! it pisses me off!

Re: Alexander...praying its not jaundice, BUT my cousin had them bring the lights to her house (as Mandy mentioned) so that's an option, but I know they had to pay some of the expense then??

I am not sure if I missed it, but will you be able to or have you breast fed jono yet?

I am soooo weepy today! I just wanna cry thinking about your boy in hospital...and C adjusting to this all:-( I do know it will get better...you have been so bloody strong! I would have been curled up in a ball of tears everyday I assure you!

oKAY...yOLISWA and Zee....You girls are AWESOME to have done so well with studies this year! I'm so jealous that I didnt have same discipline!

Helen...WOW! I was in SHOCK when i saw status update! I am just very cross with you cause i could have bought PINK!!! MY FAVE COLOUR!!!!!!!! lol. Labour sounds like it was a breeze! Cant wait for full story!

Okay...wanna do a quick recap on the meets and will then catch up on other posts a bit later!

Lelani you're going to be cross with me, but man you look so young. You are freakin adorable! lol. I miss you warm hug! It was so lovely to just be so welcomed by you (and all the ladies!). Chanel is so sweet...putting up with Addy and also hugging me hello and goodbye! All her mom's cuckoo internet buddies.lol. Zian has got the most lovely smile and has that mischievious twinkle in his eye!

Julie...so warm and sweet...and VERY FUNNY! I had to laugh at her antics and her impersonations of Dylan when she thought he was whiny.lol.

I loved watching Dylan and Zian interact, because they were either arguing over the same toy...OR they would band together against one of the moms! (The table pushing which I thought was hilarious how Zian wanted to come to Dylan's rescue!)

Angelique is like the girlfriend you have known all your life! Just so friendly and bubbly...which I picked up in your voice when you called! Cole is so passive and sweet (dont believe what Angelique tells you). just made himself right at home.lol

Naeema is so cute and also so friendly. I really was so glad that you were able to make the meet. Zain is so well behaved (and has a thing for playdough??? lol). He has the darkest, warmest eyes!

Meeting nayeela was also wonderful. They really just welcomed us into her home and Kamilah is absolutely GORGEOUS! She and Addison were laughing their heads off by the end of the night and it was quite cute to see them interact.

Then yesterday the cherry on the cake, meeting miss Yoliswa! Oh man...we could have chatted all day. She is so funny, talkative, warm (I dont even like hugs but all of you are such great darn huggers!). Yoza...when you left G comes to me and says: Wow that girl is so stylish!! I was saying to lisha...I felt so bland with my bird's nest hair, no gloss even on my lips..lol. You didnt make me feel that way...but wow...you are are really a hot mama of 2! I dont know where this weight is you speak of losing!

I am tearing up again because I really feel like I left a great bunch of friends behind in CT when my own 'real life' friend kind of disappointed me on this trip. So ladies...thanks so much! I really hope I will see you all soon again!

Briefly, the trip was lovely but exhausting. Its really not much of a holiday with a toddler. Addison was like an energizer bunny in the malls. She actually threw 2 tantrums and threw herself under a table in truworths! MY WORD! NEVER HAS SHE DONE THAT HERE! But she had a blast...we shopped so much.

I joked with Lisha when I was missing Addison that if Nine West was having a sale it would help my broken heart...and bob's your uncle, on Saturday there was 25% off on bags and hubby obliged by telling me to just choose one its so beautiful!

Gerard and I bickered alot on the trip, nothing serious, but silly things like getting lost (and I dont handle getting lost very well)...and yesterday back in PE i just hugged him..it just felt like we had no chance of being a couple on this trip. There was no strolling, holding hands on the beach or anything like that.....so hugging him last night just felt so good...like we can finally just take a step back and find some time for each other. So for that I am glad to be back home.

Okay...I have probably taken up a WHOLE Page! So i will try and post later.

Oh Lwasi...I tell you, another reason I cried when reading here....about how much you miss your boy! I am praying the time flies by and you will be reunited!

Nelria and Ally hope you are having a lovely holiday!

Nicole, Lisha, Ara, Pfairy, Angie, Jessica, Mandy and anybody else I missed...HELLO!! Will catch up later.

I arrive at 11 and need to fly at 1 again on the 21st so not much time, but it would be awesome to meet you mandy and vix. No stress if not though. xxx

ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh Vix honey, sounds just all too much! At our hospital, they said if Cam was Jaundice, they could send the machines to our house so find out if they can do that for you? It would be great if Alex could recover at home if he needed it.

Im sorry you are going through all of this! You just need peace, but boy you are surrounded by love..little C is there with you, and should be causing lots of laughs as well ( through the tears . C will be fine and every child does eventually adjust. He is doing very well! those pictures are priceless! They warmed my heart this morning! too precious!

Men dont really understand tears, but I am glad you are letting them flow, you need to release a lot of pent up emotion from controlling yourself through all this for so long! You are in shock! Are you taking rescue? You should Vix, it will help take the edge off and are you on those pills that you can take while breastfeeding. Shit I cant remember what they are called!?

Just remember that for us, your strength is still clearly shining through, just dont be so hard on yourself..you are amazing, kick your mom to the curb and surround yourself with anything and evrything you love, music, foods,magazines and photos! You will get through all of this!

Vix - I am available all of sunday and can leave Cam with Marc if you need ANYTHING - and I mean it, I can play with C atyour house, cook some meals for the week ahead, MAKE YOU TEA!! or look after Alex if you want to take C out ?? whatever!??

Jess love, Illiadin also worked for me. Panado for any headaches, and REST with your favourite dvd when Bryce is at school!

Lisha - LOL at Shrey with someone taking his toys

Julz - I can also come on the 21st - would seriously LOVE to meet you!

Shame Ally sorry about the twins having fevers, but hope you have a ball today!

Nicole, you are a better mom than me! Cam woke up at 04h45, so I went in and told him that its still dark and mommy is still sleeping, so here is your dummy and teddy, good night! Lucily he lay down and said good night! and I went back to bed! - til 06h00! When I walked in at 06h00 he was jumping in his cot but was being quiet for mom! This is after the last year of NOT getting him if he wakes up too early, I love that damb cot for keeping him in there!

My dad left this morning already and we had such a lovely time! We had a dinner party with my cousin last night , and her hubby and we laughed and had such an awesome time.. Cmaeron showed so much love for my dad, it was awesome to see! He wanted his grandad not his dad every morning - just coz of the excitement of having a house guest I think and My dad felt so loved, he just loved every second of Cam!

Helen - hope Nina is settling in and Oliver is okay? Let us know how its going?

Zamzie - how is your pregnancy gonig? Any news on the baby ?

anyhoo - have a good day all

Vix will you let us know what the blood results are if you get a free oppotunity? Im glad c is keeping your spirits up.xxx

Julz sorry to hear that Dylan is ill, and wow well done to him for his swimming achievement.

Ally i am green with envy...Stillbaai sounds like heaven. Hope you all have a wonderful time and that the twins are not to naughty