.....so he told me yes his sure...blah..blah...blah...
then I tried the "for her sake" argument...I asked him to please save a bit longer to give her the wedding every girl dreams of...I once again got back she not worried about things like that & they really love each other....
so I thought lets just leave it for now & see how it plays out...then I'll sit down with both of them sept & have a good heart to heart...
then he sends dh a message on sunday asking what were doing the 26th of nov....dh replies that he'll def be working coz that's there busiest time....
so he asks if me & the kids can come up for his wedding then

I really dont have a good feeling about this coz they haven't been together for long enough (or that's how I feel)
& what's really worrying me is that she has the same surname as my brother...very unlikely, but what if they are related in some way....

prob sounds ridiculous, but should someone take a change like that without looking into it???
dh suggested that I ask him to do a marriage course before the wedding, coz that really helped us
wish I knew how to stop him from rushing into this!!!