
what happened to the quick reply button?
I wrote a long post and pressed the worng button so this verion might be shorter LOL
Lisha- actually it's really interesting shopping and thinking for twins, i have found articles in my old preg mags about twins that i never read because it didn't affect me, i enjoyed reading those!
Angie- yes yes yes, i will be one of few who will have twins on a serious budget it must be said. I just can't bear the idea of spending R4000 on a pram even for twins! actually me & Nelria are exactly the same both real budget birds LOL
Christi- I'm sorry Iris bit the other child but i doubt it was completely un provoked. I agree with Yoza, these things happen it's how we handle it that matters.
WRT car, there's no way I'll make myself completely car less i promise! I think it's too risky to sit at home with a baby and no transport, what if there was an accident? DH drives a work van, he also has his man car (bakkie) and I have my sparky so if i get rid of the Sparky then I will just use the Bakkie when I need to go out.
I said to Elwyn this morning, can you imagine i do manage to go out on my own to the shops in my car and i need to change a nappy? wow, a 2 year old who refuses to sit in a stroller, 1 screaming newborn in the pram and one nappy to change? no ways, besides half the nappy change areas in public places aren't negotiable with a single pram never mind a twin pram. nope, my outings will be resticted to coffee with mums and Dr's visits only for my own sanity! So i can drive the Bakkie on those occasions. I just don't like driving the Bakkie too much because it's enormous and a pain to park (so at somewhere like pappachino's i will really struggle) but i will survive. it's not worth the R350 monthly insurance on my car just so i can park at pappachinos LOL R350 a month is a large amount of nappies.
Nelria- Dh MADE me wait til 16w and even then i had to beg for it LOL i would say 6w minimum, i personally felt ready from about 8w. Just be prepared for a not so thrilling ride, it wasn't at all sore which i thought it would be but i use a lot of muscle power during the deed and i had lost a lot of that control, the first time i actually felt quite useless LOL I didn't enjoy it, it wasn't horrible, i just didn't climax.
if you're put off by the scar then just lay over the edge of the bed and let him come from behind, it was a bit more comfortable for me aswell because i could rest my heavy bag boobs on the bed and my tummy felt a bit supported.
Angie- my goodness, how do you know when you joined us? LOL I remember the day i found PF was the day i found out i was pregnant and shat myself LOL Thank you for all your love and support aswell, it has been a wonderful 2 years!
Nelly- you joined us so late? wow, feels like you've been here forever.
O.K so I am going to email, Shaleen, Carika, Anneli anyone else? about the meet, so it's 17th July at pappachinos in Midrand from 10am?