January 2010 mommies

My thoughts exactly, one day that I can chat and no one is here

Ari, I agree with Christelle, I know it is not easy having Leah's father around, especially taking into consideration how he treated you, it is really courageous of you to let him in her life. I can only imagine how heart breaking it must be to see your son confused like that, but think the photo idea is also a winner!

Ari you are also struggling with the bleeding thing, I have a theory...I have noticed that the bleeding starts up after intercourse, do you girls think there is any credence to that? I didn't bleed Friday and friday night we had nookie and I started bleeding Sat and Sunday. Think we had nookie on Sun again and then I bled on monday and today it is gone again, ony brown spots (sorry for the TMI)

geezzzz where is everyone?

Aribeth - It is probably not my place to say this, but what you did by inviting Leah’s dad for a visit was a very nice thing to do. I think when he contributes to her upbringing (even though only with money) he has the right to see her. He is her dad at the end of the day.

The fact that Seth sees him as his daddy as well is a very sticky situation. Does Seth’s dad come and visit him at all? I remember you said something about him coming to visit over Christmas? Have you tried to explain to Seth that Leah’s daddy is not his daddy? Maybe show him a picture of his daddy and say to him that that is his daddy?

Busy loading my engagement pics on facebook for the world to see how romantic my BF................................................................ Hey should be Fiance now lol!

Ai Juanita - its not as if she is dirty, she is just too lazy as I have mentioned numerous times.

Aribeth - he shouldnt have been there! I dont think you should have invited him! He left you!!!! Dont feel sorry for them! He doesnt deserve to be called daddy!

Tough one Aribeth!! Maybe you should look into taking him to a child therapist. Im sure the medical aid would pay for something like that. They are awesome with getting things out of children through games!!

Oh HAPPY HAPPY 7 MONTHS ZANI!!